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Intro, sad

JennPalmer01JennPalmer01 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Hello ladies
My original due date was Oct. 4th. I went in for my first ultrasound two weeks ago and saw a heartbeat but I was measuring two weeks behind so due date was changed to Oct 18 even though that put conception date after the date of my BFP. I knew something was off but everyone kept saying that everything was fine and to stay positive. I started spotting yesterday and was sent in for an ultrasound. There was no heartbeat and no growth from the prior ultrasound. I started cramping and bleeding heavily last night and today has been really rough. I go in Monday for a check up.
I feel anger towards the nurse who kept telling me everything was fine and normal. Maybe she believed that but it made me second guess my feelings and feel hopeful.
And I can't stop crying. DH is heartbroken as well. He's been so supportive.
Thanks for listening, I haven't been able to talk to any of my friends or family. I'm not ready yet. I sent text messages to avoid conversation.
Hope you are all well and I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Hugs.
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  • Maxsmommy123112Maxsmommy123112 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I was told my baby was measuring a week behind. I knew when I ovulated as well and had this strange feeling but was also told it was nothing to be concerned with and my due date was changed. I knew in my gut I would never get to hold this baby.

    Sending thoughts and prayers your way for the rough days to come.
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    **siggy warning***

    Hate to see any new joins here but especially hard to see a fellow Oct 14 mamma.

    I am so,so sorry for your loss. Are stories are very similar. My original due date was the 6 moved to the 18 and like you knew that couldn't be. A week later, no heartbeat.

    I also understand what you mean about conversation it wasn't until yesterday that could actually talk about it out loud.

    We are all here for you and if you ever want to talk pm me.
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  • JennPalmer01JennPalmer01 member
    Thank you ladies. I don't like that we're all going through this but I'm grateful you're here and there's a place to go and 'talk'.
    H thinks it would be good for me to get out today but I'm just not ready yet to see people in general.
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  • barelybarely member
    So sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. An almost identical thing happened to me except that I have yet to miscarry naturally and will probably end up having to have the D&C. Hugs for you, if you need to talk you can inbox me anytime.
    TTC since 5/13
    BFP 1/23 
    MMC 3/4
    D&C-3/12 
    Currently NTNP
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