TTC after 35

Formal intro

Hi my name is Cheryl. I never formally introduced myself on this board. I just kinda jumped in head first. I sometimes ask questions & or try to support or answer others questions. I'm 37 years old, DH is 39, we have a DS who's 7. We are TTC#2. My very first pg was at the age of 26, that ended in a missed MC. We wasn't TTC because at that time we we're only boyfriend/girlfriend at that time. But with DS we wasn't purposely attempting to get pg nor we're we trying to avoid pregnancy. But a few months of newlywed BD'ing we had our first and only son.

Fast forward to now. About two and a half years ago we started to TTC#2. We didn't have much luck after several months of BFN, I had an HSG (no blockage). A few more months went by bfn's, then we decided perhaps 1 child is enough. So we stopped actively TTC for almost a year. This past June mutually we agreed to try again. My OBGYN prescribed me clomid. So I started my first round in September. I was taking it unmonitored. Still BFN's so I decided to seek help from an RE. I had my first apt in Dec. he did 1 sonogram and drew blood from me on two different occasions. Also on the first visit he was pushing IUI & IVF papers at me (a real turnoff). That's ALL he did for me. My regular OBGYN could have done that for me. So last month I decided to not have him as my doc anymore (he was useless). DH swimmers was checked, all was well except he has low morphology. So this is were I stand today with my quest journey of TTC#2.

Re: Formal intro

  • Thanks for introducing yourself I thought I had missed it! Hahaha...sorry your having such a hard time ttc. I can't stand pushy doctors:( if mine would of been that way I would of left too. My problem with my re is he monitors and seems to do everything but seems kinda laze fare and or air headed! Lol...
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  • welcome! 

    Not all RE's are good-- hope you find the RE you need or answers you are looking for.

    hope your stay is short and sweet!

    good luck!
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    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • Thx ladies, this year is our year, it's gonna happen for us. Positive thoughts goes a long way
  • Hello :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Heya BeckyPoo5
  • Hey--nice to "meet" you! :)

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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • Same here Davie813
  • Thanks for the intro.
    Hope you have success this year. Maybe look for a new RE who can help you.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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    All welcome

  • Welcome to the board!  
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  • Welcome! No worries I jumped in too without realizing I needed to intro too. This board is cozy. Hope your stay is short.
    Married for the 1st time in 2009 @ 36.
    Conceived DD naturally after trying for 1 1/2yrs - born May 2012
    Trying to conceive #2 since Fall 2012
    Blocked right tube.
    1st IVF cycle started in February 2014
    Retrieval was 3/4/14 (11 eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized)
    Day 5 transfer was 3/9/14 (3 emryos transferred, 2-3AA, 1-2AA)
    Beta test on 3/19/14 - BFP 294
    Beta test 3/21/14 - 527
    Beta test 3/28/14 - 5307 Not one, but two sacs seen on ultrasound!
    4/4/14 - Saw Baby B's heartbeat! Baby A was stubborn.
    4/11/14 - Lost Baby A :( Saw and heard Baby B's heartbeat @ 154
    Our EDD is 11/25/14. Can't wait to meet our turkey baby! It's a girl!


  • Hooligans4 yes a friend of mine recommended her RE to me. She raved about his bedside manners. He seams legit and interested in knowing why she's having trouble TTC. I will be giving him a call for an appointment in a few cycles if I can't get pg on my own
  • You should call now because sometimes it takes a while to get an apt. This way you still keep trying on your own while you wait for the first apt. Well good luck. I do hope it happens soon for you.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

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    All welcome

  • Welcome and I hope that your residence on this board is a short one! ;-)

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  • Ok great advise holligans4. Urmysinshine77 I sure hope so
  • Good luck. I hope it's your year too!
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