Late Term and Child Loss

Results are in...

There were no choromosonal issues. Which is not surprising based on my 13w and 20w appointments. And points more that it was caused by CMV (which I tested positive for and my dr believes was the cause based on my numbers).

A fucking virus stole my baby. I wasn't even sick enough to miss work and he's gone. I'm so angry right now. :(

BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

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BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • MCH77 said:
     A fucking virus stole my baby. I wasn't even sick enough to miss work and he's gone. I'm so angry right now. :(
    Exactly how I feel about the loss of my boys.  It was a different infection that took mine, but still... I'm angry too.  I'm angry for you and angry for me and angry for any mother who lost their baby due to a virus/bacteria.  Shitty luck - not a good enough reason for these angels to be gone. 
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    I'm in the virus/infection club. Not a good club to be in. I'm thinking of you.

    ETA: I'm angry too.

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    MCH77 said:

     A fucking virus stole my baby. I wasn't even sick enough to miss work and he's gone. I'm so angry right now. :(

    Exactly how I feel about the loss of my boys.  It was a different infection that took mine, but still... I'm angry too.  I'm angry for you and angry for me and angry for any mother who lost their baby due to a virus/bacteria.  Shitty luck - not a good enough reason for these angels to be gone. 

    All of this. My water broke bc of a bacterial infection and my son was dead within 12 hours. I am so so sorry for your loss- you are not alone.

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    edited March 2014
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    I'm so, so sorry. It's just.not.fair.




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  • I am so sorry. A virus stole my baby too, but he caught it a few days after he was born. No one was sick that we know of, and it is an incredibly rare virus for an infant. Like someone else said, it's just shitty luck. I'm mad too, mad for all of us, it's just so unfair.

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    Thanks ladies for your kind words and agreeing it sucks. I'm over people trying to rationalize it to me. Why can't they just say its horrible and move on?

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. We knew for most of my pregnancy that our little one's odds of making it were not great. I can't imagine having her taken from us with no warning and I can't imagine how you feel. I know it's not much condolence, but I will be thinking of you.
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  • Thinking of you. So sorry :(
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