DH annoying comments

mooncusp22 · March 2014

My back has been killing me lately...so annoying when I wake up this morning & DH asked how I slept & I say "bad again, my back hurts so much & I can never get comfortable" and his response is "yeah, I know how you feel"

Really?? Are you pregnant ?? How about offering a back massage to the person carrying your child?

Alana1977 · March 2014

My husband asked why I was thrashing around last night. I to him my legs were restless, my back and hip hurt, I was having a hard time car hung breath and was just so comfortable. He kindly informed me that much if it was in my head. That comment did not go over well.

Alana1977 · March 2014

Damn autocorrect...I was having a hard time breathing - not car hung breath. Bumping on an iphone is a pain

mooncusp22 · March 2014

Glad I am not alone! He also asked me the other day what I will & will not miss with pregnsncy. I answered then asked him. He said he will not miss my complaining. That did not go over well either.

mooncusp22 · March 2014

When I ask, I get a 30sec massage. I asked him to cut my toenails the other day & he told me to get a pedicure instead (his treat).

zoopsiedaisy · March 2014

That's is so frustrating. My husband gets pinched nerves in his upper back that last a couple days. I've had one in my lower back since 2/16! I can barely walk sometimes but he still says, now you know what it feels like!! No...you don't know what it feels like!!

But the worst comments are from my mil who thinks I won't make it to April even though my EDD is 4/27. I tell her that would put the baby at or under 36 weeks and that I'm not wishing for that. To which she replies, you don't have a choice when she comes or with technology today it doesn't matter when she's born. YES it does!! YOU don't know when she's coming!! And her theory is based on the fact that my stomach is "huge"! Here are a few possible reasons why.... I have no torso, i have a potentially large baby thanks to wonky blood sugar, and I've gained 30 lbs!! Good lord!!!! I've been needing to vent about her so bad!

Relish1025 · March 2014

I completely understand. I wake up extremely early to take care of our dog every single morning, and let him sleep in until 11 at the earliest (he works hours that allow this). Well, once I'm up- I'm up. I just can't fall back asleep. So, on top of sleeping pretty badly due to the whole 8 months pregnant thing, any extra sleep I might have had gets tossed out the window. If I let her go a few extra minutes and she starts whining, SO wakes up, looks at her, turns the other way, and then waits for me to get her! I don't even get a thank you once in a while. When I've confronted him about it, all he says is "Well I was tired". Might I add that he has an exceptionally easy time falling back asleep after being awake for a bit (meaning that he could sleep again after taking the puppy out). On top of that, when I ask him for a back-rub, I too get the crappy 30 seconds, and then it's "my hands hurt" or just plain ignorance. Of course though, when he feels lousy, he expects me to do everything for him. Don't get me wrong I love my SO more than almost anything, but sometimes he's just so inconsiderate. It's like, "Hello, I'm creating life in my goddam stomach."

Sorry, that was a much needed vent.

snmetz7 · March 2014

Mine takes the cake ladies. He said "I thought babies were small...but you are soo big!" :-w

partridgeb06 · March 2014

Wow, I would literally punch DH if he acted this way. He helped put you in this discomfort, so tell him that you want to be pampered. A ten minute rub from him is free, a good prenatal is about $100.

LittleLady77 · March 2014

I don't know @snmetz7 my DH made a comment the other day he has been paying for ever since. We joke around a lot in a playful way and sometimes it involves our physics, we are both pretty fit and healthy usually. But now I'm 8 months pregnant with twins so when he said "can you get me a glass of water, besides you should move around more, maybe you'll lose a pound or two" I flipped out. He was immediately sorry and said it was a joke but I'm not letting that go. Idiot!

Mrs.Kohalic17 · March 2014

I had bought a new pack of panties, the Hanes ones with like 6 pairs or whatever was on sale. So I figured idc what pattern it is, as long as they fit. Well I have always had a big butt and I had on the zebra print one and was bending over throwing up in our bedroom garbage can. I only had on a tshirt and those... DH comes to check on me and says "holy zebra!"

Needless to say I flipped and started bawling my eyes out and told him I was throwing that pair out. He tried saving himself by saying it was just a lot of the print not that my ass was huge or anything. Yeah it didn't go over well and he tried making up for it with sex. I don't think so!!! I got a nice long massage instead and he did not get a happy ending!!

Eta: forgot a couple words

Ashleypixie · March 2014

Ugh I want to kill mine. He's the biggest sissy when it comes to anything mildly uncomfortable, and makes sure everyone knows when he has a sore throat or a bruise or bit his tongue, whatever. If I mention that my back hurts or something, he'll say "Mine does too." about fucking anything! No, your anything isn't like my things. If I ask for a back rub he has to stop because his hands hurt. From taking clients out for lunch everyday? For sitting at a desk? You are a lawyer, maybe it's because you talk too much with your hands? Poor thing.

sking72 · March 2014

LittleLady77 said:
I don't know @snmetz7 my DH made a comment the other day he has been paying for ever since. We joke around a lot in a playful way and sometimes it involves our physics, we are both pretty fit and healthy usually. But now I'm 8 months pregnant with twins so when he said "can you get me a glass of water, besides you should move around more, maybe your lose a pound or two" I flipped out. He was immediately sorry and said it was a joke but I'm not letting that go. Idiot!

My SO and I are both athletic people. Both ran college track (he was a lot more serious than I was, plus he was a distance runner and I was a jumper) so the fact that I've reached 200 pounds when he barely gets over 155... It's just weird, but we joke about it. Unfortunately the other day I mentioned a dream about going bikini shopping and he said "none of that until we do some post baby insanity workouts." Despite being able to joke with him about my weight most of the time, I was not happy about this comment. He apologized later but still.

jennypenny1014 · March 2014

I already have body image issues when I'm not pregnant, so if my H said a god damn word about my weight, pregnant or not, he'd be dead on the floor.

And fuck him today. No, he didn't say anything about my weight - lol - but we're just not getting along today and I'm angry with him. So fuck him. That is all.

LittleLady77 · March 2014

sking72 said:

I don't know @snmetz7 my DH made a comment the other day he has been paying for ever since. We joke around a lot in a playful way and sometimes it involves our physics, we are both pretty fit and healthy usually. But now I'm 8 months pregnant with twins so when he said "can you get me a glass of water, besides you should move around more, maybe your lose a pound or two" I flipped out. He was immediately sorry and said it was a joke but I'm not letting that go. Idiot!
My SO and I are both athletic people. Both ran college track (he was a lot more serious than I was, plus he was a distance runner and I was a jumper) so the fact that I've reached 200 pounds when he barely gets over 155... It's just weird, but we joke about it. Unfortunately the other day I mentioned a dream about going bikini shopping and he said "none of that until we do some post baby insanity workouts." Despite being able to joke with him about my weight most of the time, I was not happy about this comment. He apologized later but still.

Ya, we have those moments. No matter what, it's not cool to joke about a pregnant lady's weight!

Themaritimemama · March 2014

DH never says anything weight wise, but does tell me that I'm breathing heavily... I'm like well duh, there's a human pushing on my lungs.

emh81 · March 2014

I'm so glad I read this and that I'm not alone... I've been so annoyed with DH lately. So inconsiderate! I'm 8 months pregnant with OUR baby, maybe I should be the one who comes home from work and flops down on the sofa for the rest of the night. Instead I'm the one making dinner, cleaning up after dinner, doing all of the laundry, cleaning the house, installing the car seat, readying the nursery, managing our finances, etc! ALONE! And then he has the nerve to say I'm "nagging" him when I ask him to pick up or put away his own shit!! HELLO, the rules have not changed, if your clothes are dirty put them in the hamper (not on top of it, not on the floor next to it) if they're clean hang them up on one of the 10 hooks I installed for you, if you have a snack, clean the fuck up after yourself. I am not a maid and I'm about to give birth to a child I do not want to be married to one! Then he gives me "baby you're working too hard why don't u sit down with me and relax for a little while" to which I always reply 'I'd love to! Would you help me do x really quick and then it's done and we can both relax' always met with some excuse and me continuing to do shit by myself. I'm sick of hearing how he has to "put up with my prego craziness" or how "i just can't deal with you when you're crying" here's and idea, don't make me cry! Or at least act like u give a shit if u do!! I'm about to show him what fucking crazy looks like!!

... That got intense, sorry. Long day. Please say it's the hormones?

BreeShipman · March 2014

Not really a comment just a total "this is pointless, I don't care or need this" attitude about the 2 THREE HOUR birthing classes (which included the L&D tour time) which isn't asking much. I'm sorry but I would like to be prepared when I go into labor and I have to do a little more than just hang out and wait for a baby to be placed in my arms. And just because you worked at the hospital as a chaplain doesn't mean you know all about being my coach during delivery. I know he is excited about the baby and understands all the work it'll be for me but I would like to have him not act like it's all just a natural thing your body does and no big deal. I don't think that's really what he thinks but it's the feeling I get. Stupid pregnancy hormones! Hoping L&D is more supported than I'm expecting right now.

Ok sorry for the long rant!

sdo_082989 · March 2014

I want to throat punch mine so hard. DD has always hated naps. I will fight with her for HOURS everyday to take one and 99% of the time we get nowhere.

DH's words today "I don't see what the big deal is, she is already in the full blown terrible twos so how will a nap help anything? You just need more patience, she isn't that bad."

I very politely told him that I need her to take a nap because when she gets overly tired she starts doing EVERYTHING she shouldn't and I would like to take a nap too sometimes, or have an hour to myself. His reply?? " Well if you would go to bed earlier you wouldn't need a nap." I asked when I was suppose to have some time to myself and he says "you're alone every night after I go to bed." I walked off...I cannot understand for him.

Elf2718 · March 2014

My SO jokingly pokes fun at my recent snoring fits. He bitches about how loud I can get....well, sorry! I have an extra 26lbs on my tiny ass frame, I'm still fighting off a a cold, and allergies are kicking my ass! Shut it! You snore all the time! Ugh. [-(

Abcollins57 · March 2014

Since this has turned into a full fledged DH rant, I'm joining!
Today, our 7 year old has a stomach virus. He has alternated sleeping/puking the whole day. When he gets sick, he and I usually sleep in the living room (since apparently sickness is a mommy issue). I'm thinking since I'm 35 weeks pregnant, having Braxton Hicks like a bitch, and in general not needing a stomach virus at this point, DH would tend to the kid so I can rest. Yeah....he actually came in to ask while I was taking the "warm bath guaranteed to cure BH" (note the sarcasm) how much longer I was gonna be so he could go to bed. I sweetly replied, "longer if I have to drown you first." And he walks out. Seriously?!

HNRomance · March 2014

Mine has been mostly wonderful about most things however..... not too long ago he told me sex was getting harder because of my belly getting in between us. This from the guy who's gut has been steadily increasing since we started dating and is still getting fairly regular sex from his 8 months preggo wife? Ummmm if you're worried about the distance between us, lose the weight in your spare tire dude. I'll get rid of mine here over the next few months thank you.

Sisimama10 · March 2014

Ashleypixie said:
Ugh I want to kill mine. He's the biggest sissy when it comes to anything mildly uncomfortable, and makes sure everyone knows when he has a sore throat or a bruise or bit his tongue, whatever. If I mention that my back hurts or something, he'll say "Mine does too." about fucking anything! No, your anything isn't like my things. If I ask for a back rub he has to stop because his hands hurt. From taking clients out for lunch everyday? For sitting at a desk? You are a lawyer, maybe it's because you talk too much with your hands? Poor thing.

Haha this made me laugh!

lokimau · March 2014

The cleaning thing gets me too. The nursery was his man room and everything has found another home in our apartment. He got a two dressers to make up for loosing his closet but he cannot be bothered to put his clothes in them. Instead our bedroom looks like a guys closet exploded. The rest of our place is clean because I clean it. He gets annoyed everytime I ask him to straighten up. Says "I am tired" , "I worked all day". Well so did I and I still cook and clean everyday!!!!!!!

UGH!!!

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