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S/O sex

freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
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I haven't had any in over 2 months. What's the advice on whether I can still do it with my soon to be xh? I could face rejection but I highly doubt it unless he has a side piece. Pros? Cons? Wwyd?
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Id say dont do it. It could stir up some old feelings and make the divorce harder.

    Id say find a one night stand
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  • eg214eg214 member
    Agreed. Sex with an ex is almost never awesome...esp if that is a soon to be ex or an ex husband.

    Become friends with a vibe. Not the same I know but its been at least 7 months for me and I'm good with my vibe because men are assholes and their fabulous dicks aren't worth their shit.

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    Lol you girls rock
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    Also I think it's the emotional connection I'm longing for which is a huge red flag and will make it confusing
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    MrsLynnyD said:

    Also I think it's the emotional connection I'm longing for which is a huge red flag and will make it confusing

    You should try a local moms group! I know for that emotional connection i needed while going through a divorce friends helped.

    I went back to school, you could try a mom group. My oldest sister is part of a baby wearing moms group
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  • jellybean529jellybean529 member
    BTDT. Not at all worth it. :D
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  • jesuisfatigueejesuisfatiguee member
    goodvibes (dot) com

    I haven't had sex in over a year. The first few months were the hardest (lol punny) because my sex drive never really died in late pregnancy / shortly after giving birth. You get used to it, and learn to … er… really love and appreciate yourself ;) 



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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Lmao. Im in a relationshop and not having sex. Ive gotten to really apprieciate my hand
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    I really laughed out loud at myself for having this crazy fleeting thought last night. He was decent for 1 week and I forgot he is really BSC!
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