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I am so angry- major rant

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I know this sounds terrible, but right now I'm just angry. I'm angry about what is happening, I am angry that everyone gave me false hope. So many people told me things like " I'm sure everything will be fine" or " I have a feeling everything is going to work out" or "this happens all the time" or "I think you will be greatly relieved". They were wrong. All of them. Even the nurses at my OB that said I had nothing to worry about. Wrong. I know that everyone was just doing what felt like the right thing. I know that. I probably would've done the same in their shoes, but right now it's just adding insult to injury thinking about those comments and how stupid I was for beginning to believe them. I knew they were wrong, but with everyone saying these things a part of me started to believe it. I thought maybe their instincts were right and mine were wrong. I was hoping, and now I'm wishing. Wishing they had been right.
TTC since 5/13
BFP 1/23 
MMC 3/4
D&C-3/12 
Currently NTNP
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Re: I am so angry- major rant

  • MrsSnyder124MrsSnyder124 member
    You have every right to be angry . I want to bash the nurse in the face who told me spotting is perfectly normal . That brown spotting is old blood and means nothing . They should keep their mouths shut unless they know for sure everything's fine because they can't promise that .

    Hugs to you ...I'm sorry for what you're going through .

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  • Maxsmommy123112Maxsmommy123112 member
    I totally understand where you're coming from and recently I've been on the other side of it and I've realized people just want to hear what they want to hear and get annoyed or irritated when you tell them something to the contrary. So I think that's why people are so optimistic because they are scared of our reaction to the truth. I can tell you one thing, I would MUCH rather have people be honest with me and I not like it than have them sugar coat a bad situation just to make me feel better!
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