XP from IFV

Lacyj67 · March 2014

Well got the call from the nurse that my Hcg Monday was a 5 so that's good I guess. It went Down really fast after the miscarriage and I'm am glad about that even though it's a shitty situation. I wonder what's next. With four embryos left im really nervous to keep using my body. Me and DH have talked about possibly having my best friend carry if she's cleared but we really don't know if the finances can support that even of were not paying her a fee... There are so many other fees that come into play and it's not even a for sure this will even work. We are torn right now on what to do next and unsure about the future!!!

Mistyhf · March 2014

I am so sorry about the situation. IF sucks!!!! Big hugs to you.

lincoln79 · March 2014

I am so sorry about your losses. I know for us, it became clear after genetics came back as normal from our third loss that my body was having issues that we just couldn't figure out.

After transfer into our GC, mh asked if I was OK. I told him that I wanted to do what was best for my child, and this was it. He replied that he felt like a was clearly already a great mother if I was feeling that way. I think you will know which way to go in time. Huge hugs.

If you want to PM me for info about our GC arrangement (financial, otherwise), feel free.

BeckyP005 · March 2014

Just want to reach through the screen and give you a big hug. I hope you and YH are able to move forward with some sort of plan

Lacyj67 · March 2014

Thank you Lincoln I probably will pm you with a few questions. I'm so ok with having to use donor eggs that I feel as if using a GC can be a ok transition for us if that what's best to do. We will never get this donor again it was a one time deal and I really want these four embryos we have left to work out. So I will do whatever I need to do and if that's going the GC route im already sooo ok doing that!!! Me and DH have had lots of these talks over the last few years so I think these things actually coming into play isn't as shocking as if we had just found out. I just really want to be a mom and however were ment to be parents I will do it if it's financially able!

lincoln79 · March 2014

PM anytime. I even made a Power Point for the initial discussion with our GC that I have shared with others. (((hugs)))

Mama-Bear · March 2014

I'm sorry for your losses. I hope your baby finds his or her way to you soon. If you have any question from the GS side you can message me, I delivered a baby boy for a wonderful couple last May.