Sucky update!

Re: Sucky update!

• designer303 member

  March 2014 edited March 2014

  Ohhh no I am so sorry to hear this.  Huge ((hugs)), I will be praying for that miracle for you. I hope maybe sharing my mom's story might help. After 20 years of trying and hoping.  I was my mom's first at a very AMA and she went through menopause when I was pretty little so technically she was also pre-menopausal when she got KU with me.  She had been told under no circumstances would she be able to have children, but I'm here so miracles do happen.  I sometimes have to remind myself that the doctor's can be wrong and they were for her and me any number of times during our battles with IF.  Hang in there and focus on the adoption stuff to stay busy and I'll keep hoping for you too!!

  TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

  Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

  TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

  Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

  Back with RE as of January 2014...

  5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy

  April 2015 IVF#1

  5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

  Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd

  

   
    

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• Jen071407 member

  March 2014

  Big hugs!

  
  

  Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF

  TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation

   3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI

  2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI

  BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.

  NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 

  RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 

  IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 

  ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

  
  

   

  
  

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  March 2014

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• Clagore member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry to hear this.  Big hugs to you today.  

  Me: 30 Dh: 33   Married: 10 yrs.

  
  

  BFP #1: 1/04  MMC@15 wks  D&C 4/22/04

  
  

  DX w/PCOS 1/05, met RE 6/05, HSG 7/05

  
  

  BFP#2 8/05 w/Clomid 100mg, trigger shot, IUI  (Metformin, Progesterone, Heparin during PG) DD born 5/06

  
  

  BFP #3 8/09 DS born 4/10

  
  

  BFP #4: 7/16/13     D&C 8/19/13

  
  

  
  

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• Jeffreysmom24 member

  March 2014

  I am so sorry to see your update. Stay strong - sending you big hugs!!

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• GraceyandTroy member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry. I'm sure it's heartbreaking right now. Miracles do happen and you could have a bio baby after all. But I know a number of adoptive parents who look back at IF and know that that journey lead them to the full arms and full hearts in a way they'd never imagined but now can't imagine not having. Your next baby will come into your life and be a gift that was worth the wait.

  Happily Mrs. C 

    
  

  
  

   

   

  start ttc #1 in Jan 2009

  dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin

  Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)

  Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011

  Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011

  Hoping holistic approach works!!!

  
  

  BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo

  Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

  
  

  Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er

  Back on metformin Aug 2013
  

  Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf

  DS weaned in April 2014

  Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  

  Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!

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• tuscanbride2007 member

  March 2014

  I am so sorry ((HUGS))
  

  BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
  BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12
  
  
  

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  TTC #3 since May 2012
  

  BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
  BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
  BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14
  

  No longer trying to conceive.

          
  
  

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• freakyfast member

  March 2014

  Lots of (((hugs))) to you. 
  

  
  

  
  

    
  

  
  

  
  

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• KC1212 member

  March 2014

  First of all, a middle finger to the universe for crapping on you.
  
  I'm so sorry to see this update. We love you and we're here for ya. ((Hugs)).

  
  
  Me: 27 DH: 33
  

  Married 6 years
  Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
  

  
  TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
  May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
  September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
  October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
  Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
  November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
  No longer benched per New RE/OB!
  Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic  
  Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
  March 2, 2014 First AF
  
  
  

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• CeCe8579 member

  March 2014

  Thank you so much everyone! Your support is more helpful then you could ever imagine!

  Carly

  (Former UN: iloveshanej)
  
  

  Birdie born 05/01/2007
  Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          

  
  

  
  

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• rmpar29 member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry that you got such devastating news.  Huge ((((HUGS)))) for you. 
  

  TTC #3 since 8/2012
  DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS 6/2010
   BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
  BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
  My chart here  All ALers welcome!
  

  
  
  

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• annibes member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry. That has to be really hard news to take even if you're not completely taken by surprise. I will keep hoping with you for that miracle as you move forward in the adoption process!

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• lcloffredo member

  March 2014

  I am so sorry. Big hugs to you. I will keep you in my T&P

  

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• Momarazzi007 member

  March 2014

  just reiterating the love for you and standing beside KC middle finger at the universe! ((hugs))

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  January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
  June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
  
  November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
  January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
  
  SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
  November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
  April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
  FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
  BABY BOY VINCENT!
  
  
  We can't wait to meet you!
  Conception: Potato Love!
  

  
  

  

  
  

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• CeCe8579 member

  March 2014

  Thanks ladies! I needed that picture this morning @Momarazzi007
  
  

  Carly

  (Former UN: iloveshanej)
  
  

  Birdie born 05/01/2007
  Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          

  
  

  
  

  Potato Launcher

  
  

  
  

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• lucky7wife member

  March 2014

  Many hugs.  That's a big blow, I'm sure.  

  I'm so impressed with your strength and hope.  

  
  

  Focus on the idea that this is just the journey, and one day you'll be able to look back and see how all of this led you to your child in the most amazing way - however they come.  I know it feels like the end of something but it could be just the start. 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  Trying for #2 with IVF after damage done in a D&C left me with one functioning (but too scarred) ovary and tube to get pregnant safely without assistance. It's a really, really long story, but that is the gist of it.  We have one daughter (whose c-section birth started this roller coaster) born in 2012 after a miscarriage in 2011. 

  Failed 1st attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 3, 1 frozen embryo saved) in December 2013.  

  Failed 2nd attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 5, 2 frozen embryos saved) in February 2014.

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