@freakyfast @Deadra77(If anyone else has anything to contribute it would be much appreciated!!)
You guys are my new Besties!!! No joke. Hope you don't mind if I pick your brain a little.
I intro'ed here before, but I've been pretty quiet... Just lurking. So here's a quick refresher. Ttc since Dec 2012. Bfp in Nov 2013 after taking Soy Isoflavones (hmm... Maybe my lining is just fair??) TV u/s to confirm early mc showed hydro on the left side. Bfp in Dec again. Miscarried at 7.5 weeks- discovered at 9.5 weeks.
How was your hydro dx? When did you have surgery to have it removed? Have you tried the old fashioned way after surgery or moved straight to ivf? Was there any treatments you couldn't do because of hydro? Clomid, iui or anything? Did you have an iud (or know the suspected cause of your hydro)?
I know that most doctors recommend having it removed before ivf because it lowers success rates. Both the gynea and the Re I'm seeing, tell me that the hydro has nothing to do with the 2mc. They both said there's evidence that hydros can cause problems with implantation but after that it should be fine. If that's the case why am I having surgery?? (Side note- I've actually asked for the surgery bc I think it's related). Studies show the "take home baby" rate is lower in women with hydro. But all the studies I've read are so small! And most are in relation to ivf. I feel like the one-off situation. My Re promises me this is because most women with only one hydro probably don't even know they have it and we never hear about it- which I thought was a pretty bold statement!! But anywho, it does seem rare to find anyone who has a hydro, let alone one-sided, so maybe she's right.
She also mentioned, just in passing on Monday, the possibility of ivf after surgery. Um what? I thought surgery would "restore" my fertility. I'm no where near ready to accept that ivf is my next step (and my husband is definitely not!!! $$$) given I've just had two natural cycles with a bfp. I'm confused!
Sorry, this turned into a bunch of ramblings... I'm just at the very beginning of figuring this out and my thoughts are not very well organized. Thanks for any help or insight you can offer! And God bless if you read all this.
Re: Hydrosalpinx ***bfp/mc mentioned**
June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
BABY BOY VINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you!
Conception:
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
Yes, I really don't know if hydro caused my mcs or not because of the conflicting info. Who knows?? Because the hydro was found by accident during an unrelated u/s, I'm just starting all the testing. I'll know more after surgery- they're doing a hysteroscopy (?) at the same time to check out my uterus. I'm praying it's the only issue!
Eta: clarity
@Mrs Castillo
Thanks for paging some of the ladies dealing with the same issue. I can only hope that one day you know my reproductive system that well
@snowflakebride06
Thanks for sharing!! I'm so glad to know you were able to have a baby soon after... That jives with what I've researched. I'm sorry you're struggling now. Do they think your ectopic was related to the hydro in some way? I remember reading that the risk of ectopic is like 20% with hydro. Even if you have one good tube. That's some scary stuff!
@freakfast
That's what I've read- it's pretty unheard of to actually GET pregnant with a hydro (esp if it's large enough to be seen on an u/s which is how mine was diagnosed. That's why I feel like such a special snowflake b-(
I'm actually a bizarre case and my research-the-sh*t-out -of-every-sniffle, type-A personality is seriously aggravated by the fact I can find, like 4 studies of 17 people who have been in this situation. Wtf!!
I hope you find success soon!!
Oh yeah. And what can I expect for the surgery? Some one said like a csection, but I've never had ANY surgery. Like ever.
Hypothyroid/Fibroids/Stage 4 Endometriosis
10/2010 Open myomectomy to remove 3 fibroids largest @ 8 inches. Stage 4 endometriosis and inoperable/blocked left tube.
3/2011 Laporoscopy/Hysteroscopy. 3 endometrioma cysts, hydrosalpinx, left tube and half of the left ovary removed.
5/2011 IUI #1 medicated w/injections, 1 follie = BFP!
6/2011 Blighted Ovum/ D&C
9/2011 IUI #2 medicated w/injections, 2 follies = BFP!
I feel ok about the whole process now, but I have never had surgery and I (may) have a habit of totally spazzing out the closer it gets. So here's hoping I can remain cool!