Second baby did not develop goodbye multiples

Re: Second baby did not develop goodbye multiples

• TheDairyQueenx3 member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry to hear. Lots of prayers for a very healthy and happy 9 with your pregnancy. Keep us updated every so often!

  
  

  
  

  Together 6 wonderful years.

  TTC #1 18 months 1 loss DX unexplained IF-- BFP July 2009-- ITS A BOY

  TTC #2 3 years and 3 losses DX PCOS -- BFP April 2013-- TWIN BOYS!

  ~DS1-Feb 2010~ 

  ~DS2&3- Nov 2013  {7 weeks early}~ TTC #4~

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• ceechie member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry to hear this. Big hugs for a healthy and happy nine months.

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• xnbride member

  March 2014

  I am sorry for your loss. I hope the rest of your pregnancy goes very smoothly.
  

   

  

  9 angels in heaven-3 in my arms and 1 in the NICU                                                                                                                                    
  Mono/di twin girls: Josephine born to heaven and Evangeline born Earthside at 25w
  

  
  

  

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• MrsP419 member

  March 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss.  Hoping for a safe and healthy pregnancy for you.

  DD- Born 03/09/2010

  DS- Born 01/21/2012

                                            

                                                

  
  

   
  

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• karah4816 member

  March 2014

  I'm sorry to hear that but I'm glad the other baby is doing well and I hope you have a happy and healthy nine months

    
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• LucyRicardo3 member

  March 2014

  oh, sweetie.. I'm sorry you've been through so much. Hugs and prayers for a healthy pregnancy. Take time to process this news and please take good care of yourself for the remaining <8 months! Looking forward to seeing your LO's newborn pics
  

  
  

   
  
  
  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
  

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• Ylvelill member

  March 2014

  Sorry for you loss but gratz on the singleton!

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• jocie2581 member

  March 2014

  Sorry for your loss. Congratulations on your baby!

            

                       My fraternal twin boys. Born Sept 2013.
  

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• mer313131 member

  March 2014

  I'm sorry for your loss. Also happy for you that the other baby is healthy! Take care of yourself.

  
  

  

  
  

  

  BFP#1: 11/20/11, EDD 7/25/12, Emily Iris arrived 7/29/12 at 7 lb., 3.5 oz.
  

  BFP#2: 8/25/13, EDD 5/4/14, MMC confirmed on 9/23/13, D&C on 9/26/13

  BFP#3: 2/3/14, EDD 10/15/14, fraternal TWINS confirmed 2/21/14, two BOYS confirmed on 4/15/14!
  

  
  

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• Angelahelena member

  March 2014

  Sorry for your loss. Hang in there

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• amandam1982 member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry to hear that. Best of luck to you during the next few months!

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• AbbyPug19 member

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. DD 1 was a twin we lost baby b at 9 weeks. She is a healthy almost 2 year old now, and I'm 34 weeks along with twins again!

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• AbbyPug19 member

  March 2014 edited March 2014

  And I just want to add that is perfectly ok to go through a wide range of emotions. It's a pretty unique situation to feel happy and grateful to have a healthy baby while mourning the loss of another. After almost 2 1/2 years I still feel grief for the baby I lost and sad that my daughter lost her twin too.

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• SandraPB1220 member

  March 2014

  Very sad, but happy for your one healthy heartbeat, I agree with PP that it must be a very strange combination of feelings.  Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel, or make you feel bad/guilty for the feelings you are having.  Everyone grieves differently.  My first pregnancy was a blighted ovum and I got SO sick of people saying, "Well at least it wasn't an actual baby..."  It was a real baby to me for almost 10 weeks, and I grieved the loss as much as I would had it been a "real" baby.  You're always welcome back here with questions/comments.  Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy!

  

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