Adoption

Two years ago today

edited February 2014 in Adoption
Or, I guess, technically, yesterday (Thursday), I hugged J for the first time. I knew, barring any inconceivable catastrophes, he would be my son.

We saw him for the first time almost two years earlier, on the first day we met M, and met him a day or two later. He captivated us, although my husband and I didn't dare mention it to one another until long after we were safely home and attaching to M. Then, one day, one of us mentioned it (I don't even remember who brought it up first), and we were stunned to find that we had both been thinking of him all along. There was only one thing to do...to do everything in our power to make him our son. And God smiled on us all, because that's exactly what we were permitted to do.

In the last two years, J has really come into his own, and has transformed my life. He is smart, funny, silly, introspective, and full of life. And I am so very lucky to be able to call him my son.

Re: Two years ago today

  • That made me cry! How wonderfully sweet and inspiring! Thanks for sharing :-(
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

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  • Congrats on the two year mark. Your whole family is so blessed to have found each other.
    Birthmom to A, 1/8- the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.

    A Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. -Lao-Tzu

  • That was so sweet and a huge encouragement for me! Thankyou for sharing and putting it so well!
    Me 34 and DH 39 married in aug. 2002
    Did 5 round of clomid 2010 =BFN
     High levels of NK CELLS DX sept.2012 DOR:# 0.02 
    IVF #1 May 2012  ER 4, EF 2, ET 2 =BFN
    MINI IVF Oct.2012  Cancelled 10-27-12
    Ivf #3 Antagonist Protocol April 2013
    Shared cycle..Donor cycled in July Got 12 eggs 9 fertilized and 8 frozen!!
    DE FET #1 Sept. 3rd 2013 FIRST BFP EVER 5dp5dt
    miscarried Sept 24th at 5 weeks 5 days
    Etopic  D&C and hysterscopy Nov 5 2013
    dx with pre genetic blood clotting dec 2013
    FET #2 Jan 31st  2014 
    Miscarried for a second time again at 5 weeks 5 days
    Currently fostering to adopt an amazing little 1 year old boy..P.J!
    FET#3  is Oct 29th 2014
    BFN on fet #3
    Last and FINAL FET coming JAN 28th 2015
    Everyone Welcome






  • Awesome!
    10/27/07
  • Wonderful!
    Road to motherhood started Jan 2014 Lilypie Waiting to Adopt tickers
  • Thank you for sharing. Congrats on your milestone.
    I always wanted to be a mom, I just didn't know how I would get there.
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