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Fuck it Friday!

This whole week, people have been telling me that my daycare should be nixed and I should find a new one because my daughter caught pink eye.  I got a notice from the place last Wednesday and she was diagnosed on Sunday.  And its like, do y'all understand that when 1 kid gets exposed and is then placed in a center full of kids, not 5 kids but as few as 50 some days, that no amount of cleaning is going to guarantee that every child is safe from pink eye?  ITS FUCKING PINK EYE. That shit is mega-contagious. So the ONE kid that had it, that kid was in a room full of other waddlers.  Who, by the way, alternate between the infant, waddler, and toddler rooms. Ignorant people drive me nuts. Yeah, ok, let me just tell this center "I'm finding a new place" and then take time off work to go around looking for a new daycare that might not be as good as this one just because my daughter caught pink eye.  That makes the kind of sense that doesn't. BD's mom, especially, was telling me to find a new place and then talked about her experience of having a home day care where she took care of BD, his brother and maybe 3 or 4 other little kids. First off, look how BD turned out, no thanks.  Secondly, of course it'd be mildly more contained with 5 or 6 kids.  But no fucking guarantee, IT'S FUCKING PINK EYE. 
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And, at work, we've transitioned from the new system (which was uber slow and gave me time to check all sorts of social media) back to the old system (which is way super faster and much less complicated).  The problem is that now that we are back to the fast system, I have to really get my ass in gear and pump out all the stuff that I was behind on. In the long run, this will be awesome, and put me in line for maybe another promotion (or raise, either would be great).  But for the time being, I can't do too much checking of the board, instagram, or facebook. Which sounds silly to be upset about, but I got kind of used to being able to chat with people while just waiting for things to go through.  Like, I didn't get in (as much) trouble for checking my phone with the slow system because all I had to do was point to the screen and say "I'm just waiting until I can proceed".
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Re: Fuck it Friday!

  • I'm not in a fuck it mood yet. Too early in the day but...

    I will say FUCK YOU to manchild as I filed all the PPW this am for custody, visitation, & CS with the courts. Now I get to wait possibly 5 months for a 6 minute hearing. Geezus H. Anyway, he can KMA.

    I will say a nice eff to that Johnson and Johnson's commercial..."You're doin' okay mom." UGH. GETS ME EVERY TIME!!!!!

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
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  • Yes, 9:45pm on Sunday sounds like a perfect time to go to a comedy club. LOL, for real?
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  • Fuck you boyfriend. I just spent the entirtey of tangled shaving. And then get a text message saying we might not get to see each other this weekend because of two inches of snow.

    Fuck you bf and your little dog too!
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  • Last night I'm holding down the fort while my ex is out to dinner. I think he's out with the guys at work. When he comes home it turns out he was with that girl I asked him to stop seeing. During a tense day last week I did say do whatever you want but I'm not gonna pretend it doesn't bother me.

    He came back saying he was bored by her and didn't like listening to her problems. He said he was glad to find out that she was boring. He implied but did not say that he was done with her. He brought me back snacks that he knows I like and kind of complimented me. Then he hung around upstairs and was chatty for awhile. I didn't know what to think about it so I just let it go.

    He's going back on anti-anxiety meds later in march and he's taken some paternity time off so maybe he'll stop being so squirrelly.

    I hope the rest of today looks up.
  • Last night I'm holding down the fort while my ex is out to dinner. I think he's out with the guys at work. When he comes home it turns out he was with that girl I asked him to stop seeing. During a tense day last week I did say do whatever you want but I'm not gonna pretend it doesn't bother me.

    He came back saying he was bored by her and didn't like listening to her problems. He said he was glad to find out that she was boring. He implied but did not say that he was done with her. He brought me back snacks that he knows I like and kind of complimented me. Then he hung around upstairs and was chatty for awhile. I didn't know what to think about it so I just let it go.

    He's going back on anti-anxiety meds later in march and he's taken some paternity time off so maybe he'll stop being so squirrelly.

    I hope the rest of today looks up.

    Hope your day gets better!
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  • Had an appt. at 12pm today to meet with the oral surgeon for a consultation on my wisdom tooth, which was infected (isn't now, tyvm antibiotics) and at 1:15 there was still a line of people ahead of me just waiting to be called back. I needed to eat lunch and get back to work so I rescheduled.
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  • So bf decided to brace the weather and drive up here. My car is a sack of shit that over heats if you drive for more then an hour. Now hes bitching about that.

    So how about you fix my car? I almost never have to drive for more then an hour so it doesnt bother me
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  • How far away does he live?
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  • mrs.tbc said:
    Had an appt. at 12pm today to meet with the oral surgeon for a consultation on my wisdom tooth, which was infected (isn't now, tyvm antibiotics) and at 1:15 there was still a line of people ahead of me just waiting to be called back. I needed to eat lunch and get back to work so I rescheduled.

    I drove an hour yesterday to get to my endo appt. At 8:30, my appt.time i was still 15 minutes away so i called and told them i was coming but the roads and traffic were awful. They said sorry either take the 9:50 appt or reschedule for a different day. Sure, i can afford to take even more time off work! F you. I turned around and went back to work. Then day care calls and says aria has a low grade fever and some crazy rash. I leave to take her some benedryl and when i get there the rash is gone but she has a fever of 101.3. Yes, it's called teething people. They googled it and sure enough! She got to finish her day there. Today was so ridiculously busy i didn't have time to say fuck anything.
  • Roxalot said:

    How far away does he live?

    2 hous away
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  • @MrsLynnyD have you tried kemps marshmallow brownie ice cream? Mmmmmm
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  • @minnesotamomma91 I've never heard of it. i don't think I've ever heard of kemps.
    Unfortunately my soon to be ex has ruined my appetite and I could barely eat 1 brownie :(
  • Omg. I forgot kemps is a mostly midwest thing.

    Im sorry your ex ruined your appetite. Hugs for you
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  • Leaving a daycare over pink eye? No. That's dumb. I'm with y'all.

    Fuck my job, though. I normally like it pretty well. It's challenging, somewhat rewarding, and it's in a field that I have most of my adult working experience in, so I know what I'm doing. However, I do NOT - I repeat - DO NOT get paid enough to have the kind of stress corporate likes to pile on at the end of the month. 

    Also, fuck health insurance. WHY IS IT SO FUCKING EXPENSIVE?!?!?! Damn it. 



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  • Roll over into screw it saturday? Tried giving bf a handie last night to get him in the mood and he fell asleep. Also he got butt hurt when beney cried for me last night when bf was holding him
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  • Roll over into screw it saturday? Tried giving bf a handie last night to get him in the mood and he fell asleep. Also he got butt hurt when beney cried for me last night when bf was holding him
    You're reminding me why I'm glad I'm single lol The last thing I need is to stroke a fucking ego in my very limited free time. ;)



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  • Roll over into screw it saturday? Tried giving bf a handie last night to get him in the mood and he fell asleep. Also he got butt hurt when beney cried for me last night when bf was holding him

    You're reminding me why I'm glad I'm single lol The last thing I need is to stroke a fucking ego in my very limited free time. ;)

    Thankfully things are better today. They got to have a little bonding time again while bfs son and i read books. Now they are best buds again. Im still urked he fell asleep while i was giving him a handie. Must try giving head tonight.
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  • It is annoying to put yourself out there and be rejected… totally been there. Cried those tears lol.
    I don't want to sound like a dick, but neither party in a relationship owes the other sex. It's ok to be annoyed, but how would you feel if he got angry when you weren't in the mood? Just throwing that out there. 



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  • Im mostly frustrated cause hes been telling me all week that he was glad that his back was doing better so we could do the dirty and then its just not happening. Its feeding into my fair hes hooking up with his roonmate causr hehasnt been interested in me like for months even though he says he is.
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    Ohhhhhh geez @minnesotamomma91. All I can say is trust your gut. Nobody else knows your relationship but you...but listen to your instincts and signs. When my ex flipped out on me bc I wanted sex after coming back from a 2 week vacay away from him and when I slept NAKED next to him for two nights and he didn't so much as touch me...that's when I knew he was fucking the ex girlfriend. Also when she came beating our door down before I left for said vacay...

    Anyway just be careful!

    PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
  • eg214 said:
    Ohhhhhh geez @minnesotamomma91. All I can say is trust your gut. Nobody else knows your relationship but you...but listen to your instincts and signs. When my ex flipped out on me bc I wanted sex after coming back from a 2 week vacay away from him and when I slept NAKED next to him for two nights and he didn't so much as touch me...that's when I knew he was fucking the ex girlfriend. Also when she came beating our door down before I left for said vacay... Anyway just be careful!

    What she said. You never see him. Why ain't he jumping your bones??? Totally suspicious.
  • God damnit! We just started messing around and bentley woke up amd refuses to go back to sleep. This 90% of the reason we dont have sex my kid has terrible timeing the other ten percent is his libido has dropped since started putting on weight
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