But Mallard you seem to be implying that you've done nothing wrong, so why would you have PMs apologizing to her???
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
I was told not to post but I have screen shots of the whole 3 pms. 1 that I originally sent to her the one she sent back and the last one I sent. We all know you can't delete one without deleting them all. Because didn't Jocelyn post about having to bump hers down.
A show of hands to those besides Jocelyn who have seen them. If you want to see just PM me I will show you
At best, you were an insensitive buttmucher. At worst (which would be in line with your AW personality) you rubbed your pregnancy right before you were going to get your tube tied, in the face of a woman who just experienced a devastating loss. Either make you a twatwaffle.
So not knowing makes me a that I was pmd by others and changed the original title
You never changed the fucking title mallard. stop lying
please share what the other title was. *waits for someone to come back mallard up*
Really Mallard? You think that your "surprise pregnancy" is all that is wrong with the things you've said?
Is she really going to play innocent? :-??
Do you seriously troll these boards all day looking for more places to post?
Well hello to you too. Nope-- no trolling. Just showing support for a friend. :x
I guess it shouldn't surprise me that you and MD are "friends". I guess one PW loves another.
I don't think MD is the friend Prim is referring to.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
The first title was Jocelyn is not the only one. I got pms from more than one person who told me what happened before is was public knowledge on the board and it was quickly changed. As to not upset you or hurt your feelings more,still have those pms too
At best, you were an insensitive buttmucher. At worst (which would be in line with your AW personality) you rubbed your pregnancy right before you were going to get your tube tied, in the face of a woman who just experienced a devastating loss. Either make you a twatwaffle.
So not knowing makes me a that I was pmd by others and changed the original title
You never changed the fucking title mallard. stop lying
please share what the other title was. *waits for someone to come back mallard up*
Yeahhhh... sorry that we all found it a little too convenient that you just HAPPENED to post your (vague) pregnancy announcement right after Jocelyn posted about her loss. And oh, somehow you just didn't see Joc's post before you put yours up! Of couuuurrrrssseee not!
^see how my post to you contained an apology but still managed to be rude? Huh. I wonder if your PM'd "apologies" were anything like that!
The first title was Jocelyn is not the only one. I got pms from more than one person who told me what happened before is was public knowledge on the board and it was quickly changed. As to not upset you or hurt your feelings more,still have those pms too
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
I am not going to get banned or let anyone that I care about get banned over you, Mallard. I am sending a message to the BGs and am going to let them deal with it. You arent worth getting banned over but A14 should know who theyre dealing with.
This drama is really hard to decipher. Send the PMs to me. I will post them.
A certain someone, who has a history of being a moron, rubbed her surprise pregnancy in the face (via PM) of a very nice, wonderful and generally pretty awesome lady who, unfortunately, recently had a loss.
I hope it's ok I said that, I just think it would clear up a lot of confusion that some A14ers have. The end.
Oh. I took her "Is she trying to play innocent" as her saying that Jocelyn was. I guess my extreme dislike for Prim may have clouded my judgement.
~O) it happens to the best. Here's some caffeine. I know you dislike me, but I hold no grudges. Keep it real! My butt gets cold if not flamed regularly. I know I can count on you to light the pyre.
I've felt this way for awhile (pretty much since you said that you didn't feel sorry for your neighbors when their kid went missing because they weren't home enough, and how it was "not your place" to call the police, but somehow it was your place to call CPS on them because he was wearing only shorts in the middle of summer), but I'm excited that now everyone else realizes your true colors.
IF you are pregnant, goooood luck fitting in here, or on any other BMB (since it's not unlike you to just pick another one).
Apparently, Mallard it a lying liar who lies, but I have no idea about what.
Yes someone please give us a back story. What on earth??
Mallard was part of our BMB (S13). Jocelyn posted that she was unexpectedly pregnant, then posted that, heartbreakingly, she had a MC. RIGHT after Joc posted about her MC, Mallard posted a flaunting thread about how SHE was pregnant, but was all over the board with when she might be due. https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12198886/add-me-to-july-aug-sept-2014#latest
She claimed not to realize that Joc had just posted about her loss, she has since disappeared from our board (which was for the best). Since then, she has posted on June, August, AND September 14.
Very recently, she sent PMs to Joc telling her that she doesn't belong on TTGP, even though Joc IS TTGP to be a surrogate for her friend.
Basically, there is a lot of douchiness happening and we at S13 are tired of the shenanigans, and we (and many other boards) are supporting our wonderful friend Jocelyn.
Hrm... I accidentally started a multi-forum shit storm. Not sure I care though, if these PMs are true.
@MallardDucky, if you are so innocent, why are you not sharing the PMs? You've been offered multiple avenues to do so.
This is exactly what I didnt want. A multi-forum shit storm. While I love and appreciate what you started for me this is a huge clusterfuck. However, it did bring many people together so that makes it ok.
But really, shes never going to own up to what she did and I am not going to get banned because of her. Let the BGs handle it. This is the rare chance you'll ever see me being calm.
I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.
Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.
Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.
During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin
I've felt this way for awhile (pretty much since you said that you didn't feel sorry for your neighbors when their kid went missing because they weren't home enough, and how it was "not your place" to call the police, but somehow it was your place to call CPS on them because he was wearing only shorts in the middle of summer), but I'm excited that now everyone else realizes your true colors.
IF you are pregnant, goooood luck fitting in here, or on any other BMB (since it's not unlike you to just pick another one).
In conclusion,
Um...what? I knew there would be more to this lovely poster, but THAT is so wrong. So wrong.
Yup, neighbor kid came knocking on her door asking for help finding her brother, Mallard knew the parents weren't home, but she still sent her on her merry way to look for him alone (even though in her own words, she didn't feel like they were old enough to be left home alone). When several of us urged her to call the police, she said it wasn't her place. In the same thread, she told us not to worry, because she had a call in to CPS because the kid (who went missing) was wearing shorts... on a hot summer day. :-?
Short version.
I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.
Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.
Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.
During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin
Okay.
Why did you tell Jocelyn that she didn't belong on TTGP?
Jocelyn you are one lying ass person. I have only sent you 2 pms ever. Total. They were both In Dec 13. I will post them and take the ban bet you won't post anything because you are one fat ass lair. Here are the 3 screen shots of what I got. And I haven't said one one damn thing to you since then even when you were a bitch to me on sep13 after.
I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.
Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.
Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.
During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin
Okay.
Why did you tell Jocelyn that she didn't belong on TTGP?
Stop trying to trip her up asking all these hard ass questions.
Never told her that. Haven't said one thing to her since Dec.
Short version.
I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.
Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.
Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.
During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin
There are holes in your story. I am a lot of things but psychic is not one of them. By the time you posted your BFP I knew Jocelyn had unfortunately miscarried.
^yup, this. I remember your post showing up after hers. Maybe (MAYBE) there's a chance you didn't see it before you posted yours, but don't lie and say yours was posted first. It wasn't. If it was, then how the hell were people PMing you about Jocelyn already? If she hadn't posted yet, they wouldn't have known...
Short version.
I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.
Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.
Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.
During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin
Okay.
Why did you tell Jocelyn that she didn't belong on TTGP?
Stop trying to trip her up asking all these hard ass questions.
I'd get a new OB if one u/s said June and the most recent said August.
No shit that's a whole fucking trimester. I was due in June and got my BFP in oct, I would have been through with the first trimester in dec when she got her BFP. She said she took a test in Dec at the Dr office that was negative. How the fuck? Doesn't take a genius to figure that out.
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But Mallard you seem to be implying that you've done nothing wrong, so why would you have PMs apologizing to her???
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
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LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
A show of hands to those besides Jocelyn who have seen them. If you want to see just PM me I will show you
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
^see how my post to you contained an apology but still managed to be rude? Huh. I wonder if your PM'd "apologies" were anything like that!
I guess it shouldn't surprise me that you and MD are "friends". I guess one PW loves another.
Um no. MD is not my friend. Jocyln is though... In any event, this is not about me.
Team JoceylnB! :x
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
TTGP and Parenting together again.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
It’s not that I don’t like you, it’s that I don’t know you. Stranger Danger.
added that she is a liar not just bad at math.
April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
Well, that's just not very nice.
Why you gotta be like that, Mallard?
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
IF you are pregnant, goooood luck fitting in here, or on any other BMB (since it's not unlike you to just pick another one).
@MallardDucky, if you are so innocent, why are you not sharing the PMs? You've been offered multiple avenues to do so.
She claimed not to realize that Joc had just posted about her loss, she has since disappeared from our board (which was for the best). Since then, she has posted on June, August, AND September 14.
Very recently, she sent PMs to Joc telling her that she doesn't belong on TTGP, even though Joc IS TTGP to be a surrogate for her friend.
Basically, there is a lot of douchiness happening and we at S13 are tired of the shenanigans, and we (and many other boards) are supporting our wonderful friend Jocelyn.
I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.
Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.
Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.
During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin
Okay.
Why did you tell Jocelyn that she didn't belong on TTGP?
Never told her that. Haven't said one thing to her since Dec.