A little background - My husband is Hispanic and my two son's names are Carlos David (nn Charlie) and Samuel Orlando (nn Sammy). We have tentatively settled on "Sara Ines" for our baby girl but plan to call her by her middle name "Ines" (nn Nessie). We would pronounce it ee-ness. What are your thoughts?
My g-mother's name is Agnes, which is Ines in Spanish. I have always liked the name in Spanish since it is not too common but not a made-up name either. However, now I am second guessing it!
I am worried that it will be hard for my non-spanish speaking family to pronounce correctly. I am also worried that it could be turned into "anus" or "penis" on the school playground do to variants of pronunciations. Does it sound too old?
I would prefer to use Ines as a first name but have yet to come up with a good middle name that goes with Ines. Ines just seems to fit better in the mn position. Sara is a family name on both sides, as well hence why we chose it.
I admit I'm not really familiar with Ines, but I would have pronounced it in-nez.
I'm also not the biggest fan of planning to call a baby by the middle name. Will you want her to go by Sara at school? Or Ines/Nessie there too? I kind of think if you plan to only call her Ines, you should name her Ines.
[Or Agnes, I actually think Agnes is adorable! And Agnes would probably be easier for people to pronounce. You could still call her Nessie. Many people will have heard of Agnes on a little girl because of Despicable Me.]
I, too, am hesitant to name her Ines as the middle name since I really would rather call her Ines than Sara. (Sara just seems too common for my taste) But, I know many people who go by their middle names and their first names are used only for passports and other official documents. They say it is no big deal...I really dont know?!
I am glad to hear that the teasing may or may not be an issue...and to just not worry about it. I prefer to name my children bilingual hispanic names so that is the reason I wanted to use Ines over Agnes.
Other contenders considered are:
Ines Pilar (Pilar is another family name on my husband's side)
Ines del Pilar (not sure how the "del" would work in English!)
Ines Magdalena
Luisa Ines
Ines Louise (Louise is my mn)-although hard to pronounce in Spanish as it sounds like Luis (a man's name!)
Catalina Ines (Kathleen is a family name) nn would be Lina
I am a BIG nn user so would love my daughter to have just as cute a nn as her brothers do!
I love Agnes, a family name for me too, so I love the idea of using Ines. So pretty and I don't think it is overtly tease worthy. Like PP said there is no way to tease proof anything.
I also think Ines should be the FN. I was going to suggest Ines Carolina (w/ Spanish pronunciation) until I saw Ines Magdalena on your list. Magdalena is DD's name so I'm biased and it gets my vote.
I'm not Spanish speaking, and I definitely recognized the name and how to pronounce it. I think that you're good on that point.
But seriously reconsider calling her something other than her first name. My parents decided to have me go by my middle name, and I hated it. It was a major pain in school and on legal documents. I also hated that my name wasn't what they called at graduation or what appeared in yearbooks. I had my middle name legally changed to my first during college. Here are some suggestions for a middle name:
Ines Mary Ines Taylor Ines Ava Ines Alexandra Ines Riley Ines Jordan Ines Lyla Ines Jessa
I had a great aunt by the name of Inez. My first inclination when I saw Ines was to pronounce it EYE-nez.
My great grandmother's name was also Inez (EYE-nez). Our family has always wondered where the name came from, as she was from a very poor white family in rural Arkansas, it is quite different from the other run of the mill names in our family tree from that era.
Nessie is what the tour guides call the Loch Ness monster so that's all I can think of when I read that NN
Ines is nice, I like it. It will need pronunciation corrections at least part of the time for non-Spanish speakers. I am in the camp of recommending you find a way to put it in the FN spot, I like Ines Pilar. My two brothers both go by their MNs and they feel its a huge PIA. They reminded me repeatedly not to do that to my child when the naming conversation came up
Thanks for all the advice on the MN position. I was afraid of this. If I end up using Ines, it will be as a FN. I am still debating if I prefer Catalina as FN (nn Lina) and Ines as mn....decisions, decisions!
Re: Girl Name - "Ines" - WDYT?
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I love it, but I would say it like eye-nez, so I guess that makes me a lame-o.
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I love Pilar, so I vote for that as a MN.
I've only seen it spelled Inez, which I think is easier to pronounce
DS born Oct. '11
TTC #2 with PCOS since Nov. '13
Dx: Low Progesterone (3.3) on 8/12/14
Waiting for RE appointment on 10/28/14
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But seriously reconsider calling her something other than her first name. My parents decided to have me go by my middle name, and I hated it. It was a major pain in school and on legal documents. I also hated that my name wasn't what they called at graduation or what appeared in yearbooks. I had my middle name legally changed to my first during college. Here are some suggestions for a middle name:
Ines Mary
Ines Taylor
Ines Ava
Ines Alexandra
Ines Riley
Ines Jordan
Ines Lyla
Ines Jessa
Ines is nice, I like it. It will need pronunciation corrections at least part of the time for non-Spanish speakers. I am in the camp of recommending you find a way to put it in the FN spot, I like Ines Pilar. My two brothers both go by their MNs and they feel its a huge PIA. They reminded me repeatedly not to do that to my child when the naming conversation came up