Guys, I have a bad feeling I'm going to lose this baby.
I had a faint line on a dollar store cheapie back on Sunday. I followed up with a FRER & a digital on Monday and got a clear, strong positive. It's now Thursday. My tests aren't darker. In fact, I would say today's is lighter.
My doctor doesn't do beta/progesterone checks routinely. But I'm going to call right when they open and ask if I can get them checked. I feel so damn helpless!
Not to mention they don't even consider the chemical pregnancy I had last month a real miscarriage. It doesn't "count" on my chart. The nurse said it was a "false positive" (all TWELVE of them) because I started bleeding so early at 4w2d.
I'm sorry. I know some people hate these types of posts but I don't know where else to go since nobody knows I'm even pregnant.
Re: I feel defeated *update* with beta
I really hope they will let me get betas drawn. They didn't check anything last month even after I called and told them what was going on. I guess it's time to be more demanding.
I am sending you so many positive vibes!!!! Please keep is posted and let us know as soon as you hear from your dr! Big hugs!
Do your best to remember that a line is a line and a dark vs light line dies not mean less pregnant or less sticky.
Praying for you my dear! I totally get the anxiety! First tri sucks!
I was charting but I had a cold around ovulation so it's hard to pinpoint the exact ovulation date because my temps seemed weird. I could be anywhere from 12-15dpo today. But I got my first faint positive on Sunday. That was 8-11dpo. So to get a positive that early I think I must be closer to 15dpo by now?
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
BFP #3 12/28/2012 c/p 12/31/2012
BFP #4 2/21/2014 m/c 3/9/2014
BFP #5 9/21/2014 due date 6/4/2014
Married 6/6/2009
TTC#1 since 9/2013 HSG & Testing, High AMH: 17
Clomid + monitoring 1/27/14= BFP 2/23/14, EDD 11/1/14
2/24 Beta#1: 28.5 2/28 #2: 119 3/4 #3: 950 (Speechless!) 3/6 #4: 1914 ultrasound rules out ectopic
3/10 US = heartbeat Week 20: dx marginal cord insertion
Week 28: dx high amniotic fluid (unexplained, all tests normal)
Weeks 32 & 34: Admitted to hospital for preterm labor, Nifedipene
Week 40+4: Sent to hospital from OB appointment due to signs of pre-eclampsia
D born 11/5/14 at 6:52pm, 6lbs 6 oz 20 inches
TTC#2 since 1/2016
Clomid + monitoring 4/13/16 = BFP 6/6/2016 EDD 2/15/17
6/9 Beta#1: 28 6/13 Beta#2 186 6/15 Beta#3 473 6/17 Beta#4 886 & CP 5w2d 6/30 laproscopic removal of left tube dx heterotopic
Two BFN Clomid + IUI cycles (Oct & Nov)
Surprise BFP 12/14/16 Chemical Pregnancy
Mom to 4 wonderful children: T(8), B(6) ,M(3), and A(1)