DD got the book and rubber duck the hospital had given us in a package of gifts for DS. She was only 13 months and DS was 3 weeks early, so we aren't prepared. It worked fine.
Mommy to N (3), J (2), and C (10 months). LO4 is due in mid-September.
I forget if we gave it to her at the hospital or when we came home but I got DD a new toy- one of those puppies you pull around on a string. It was a toy I knew she liked to play with at daycare. at the hospital she was very excited to play with the balloons, and open the baby's gifts for me.
We didn't get DS anything when DD#1 was born. He was only 15 months old, so he didn't really understand or care anyway. When DD#2 was born, we did get DS and DD each a gift "from" the new baby. DD was obsessed with Doc McStuffins, so she got a Lambie stuffed animal, and DS was really into Thomas the train, so he got a Percy stuffed animal. DS was 3yrs 9 months, and DD was 2.5 when DD#2 was born though (and she was born in early December so those gifts were going to have been Christmas gifts anyway ). They both still talk about how DD#2 gave them gifts when they came to see us in the hospital. I would say if the older one is going to be under 18 months, she won't understand anyway. 18-24 months, you could consider it!
DD#1 got a baby doll at the hospital from DD#2. DD#1 & DD#2 got doll ring sling carriers from DD#3 also at the hospital. The new toy at the hospital seems to help with the anxieties of the unknown there.
Me - J.R. - 05/1986
DH - J.I. - 08/1986
Married - 09/22/2006
DD#1 - A.E. - 12/15/2009
DD#2 - N.R. - 11/07/2011
DD#3 - S.R. - 05/20/2013
DS - R.E. - 10/03/2014
Absolutely in love with our 'big' family!
I'm also a proud Auntie to a crazy little girl, her brand new baby sister, a little man on his way in the next month, and a sweet little mister we will miss forever!!!
Re: Hospital Gift
This time, DS is too young to really understand, and DD just wants a sister, lol.