AAA and Rainbow vomit

lkamenko · February 2014

Can we have this today?

@SallySunrise - girl, I hope you are still here and not taking a bump break after the board exploded last week. I love your approach to life and almost always agree with your posts. You are one of the most supportive bumpies, so I would miss you a lot if you decide to take a bump break. We need you here

@Jack5209 how are you doing with the 3 under 2? Must be overwhelming. I hope you are getting in to the routine and girls are thriving.

@bellaxanthe when are you going to vacation with your DH? You sound stressed - you need to go soon!

@eafogel - hope your brother and your friend who had a bad PPD are getting over their mental breakdowns and back on their feet. How scary! Any updates on how they are doing?

pinkangelmoon · February 2014

I've also been wondering about @jAck5209. Hope all is well!

aylafsu88 · February 2014

@kellybellybean How is Ozzie doing? Is he sleeping better after the surgery?

@breezyblueyez How are things with your H? I hope he is more supportive of you going back to the RN program.

@JulesET (I think it was you) Did you ever decide to take the part time case thing with work? How are you doing and juggling two LOs?

SallySunrise · February 2014

Thanks for thinking of me, and for your kind words. I've been laying low this week, but I've been around a little. I was bothered by the discussion last week not because people disagreed with me (I'd expect as much on the internet, especially on such a hot button issue), but because of the way my contributions were perceived. It's not the first time lately that I've been misunderstood or perceived as judgey, high-horsey, whatever, and that is not at all the person I want to be in any scenario, but ESPECIALLY not in a group of mothers! When the discussion was compared to the mommy wars, I knew I really needed to bow out. That is the absolute last thing I want any part of.

So I'm here, but I'm just kind of hanging back, taking a deep breath for a while and trying to get my apparent word vomit reflex under control before I dive back in. I'll probably never leave for good, though I admit I've wanted to, and tried many times. I can't quit you.

StokedWifey · February 2014

summergirl1211 said:

@StokedWifey: How are things going on the nannying front? Are you still working at your old job or did you quit? I know you were looking into being a nanny but I wasn't sure when that would actually take place.

I'm still at my job and trying to decide when to quit. Our workload makes me feel guilty about leaving now, but working part-time through busy season leaves childcare issues. Ugh. I have a few nanny leads, but they all start between May and September. Thanks for asking!

reinedecajun · February 2014

cbear2010 said:
@reinedecajun how is everything back home? Are you getting settled?? Did Big Frankie find another job after the bull that went on with the other one?
@mandie727 how are things with your H? I hope you guys have been able to talk and work things out!
@meow84 how's the new house?? Are you getting settled in?

Aw thanks for asking. Yeah were starting to get a little routine going on . I signed up for school and spent three hours finalizing most of the paperwork today. Hopefully tomorrow ill have it all finished.
Frankie is actually at a meeting right now about a job working as a butcher. I sware theres nothing this man hasnt done lol! Hopefully we dont have the same issues with his meds this time. Which we shouldn't because its not as high security as the other place. Fx!!!

lkamenko · February 2014

Sky?

snickersforeveryone · February 2014

@ikamenko, thanks for asking. My cousin was in the hospital for post partum psychosis and severe depression for 9 days, but was released. She's doing SO much better. She's staying with her parents and gradually upping the time she spends with her LO each day.

My brother...I haven't updated because that situation is so painful. They did release him...Friday I think it was? All my days are running together. He was diagnosed as bipolar with delirium. He had fooled the doctors into thinking he was no longer suffering the paranoia, but it's still there in full force. He's already missed one appointment and isn't sleeping, but is at least taking his meds...when he remembers them anyway. He wants to move forward with a clean slate. He decided this was the time to tell his wife about cheating on her, so things have just really hit the fan.
My mom is just in agony watching him suffer. There's only so much she can do, so she blames herself for not doing things right as he was growing up. The ifs and maybes are killing her and I haven't seen her without tears since they released him. I don't know what to do to help either of them.

breezyblueyez · February 2014

aylafsu88

mightybee said:
@breezyblueyez how are things going with your H? Have you gotten to talk about your frustrations any more? I think you mentioned that he is supportive of your plans to go back to school--I hope things are going well!

& @mightybee. Thanks for thinking of me ladies! It's getting better and he is supporting me, we are selling the house, paying off vehicles/debt and buying a smaller house so I can go back full time once I'm accepted

loss and lots of talking has helped

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