Late Term and Child Loss

another loss

I don't even know where to begin. Baby had no heartbeat at our ultrasound today. I was 17 weeks but baby measured 15. The dr said he had down syndrome but because of sound chemical imbalance was unable to survive. I'm just devastated.
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  • Oh no, I'm so sorry :(
    Me: 33, Endocrine issues & FVL       DH: 32, Nothing 
    NTNP 2009-2012         TTC since 2012:
    • Clomid, 2 IUI cycles, and 5 IVF cycles = BFN
    • FET #1   August 2013 = BFP!     EDD 5/11/14
    • Jack dx at 19w1d with Dandy Walker on 12/16/13
    • Severe Pre-e /HELLP set in Jack born sleeping at 20w1d on 12/23/13
    • FET #2 --July 2014  BFP!  ---  EDD  4/5/15

    Jack has handpicked his sibling up there :)

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  • I am so sorry. I wish I could hug you in person. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I'm so sorry. Hugs
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    BFP #2, EDD 12/26/14, please be our rainbow.

  • I am so sorry hon.

    ((((HUGE HUGS))))

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

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  • I'm so sorry

    Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

    Married 5/2010

    January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

    February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

    February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Nobody should have to go through this.  Sending good thoughts and prayers your way.
    Me: 27    DH: 30
    Married in 2011
    Baby 1: Stillborn at 27 weeks (April 2014)
    Baby 2: Due May 2016

  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.  You are in my thoughts.  
  • I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. Please don't blame yourself because you did absolutely nothing wrong. ((HUGE HUGS))


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    Our Fighter Anna born early 1/8/13 at 26 weeks
    Hoping to bring home #3 due 9/9/15
  • I'm so sorry for your loss :(

    Married August 20th, 2005 to the love of my life.

    1st BFP August 6th, 2010. Missed MC discovered at 13 weeks. 

    2nd BFP January 5th, 2011. Beautiful Harper born September 28th, 2011.

    3rd BFP March 15th, 2013. Treated with methotrexate for ectopic pg at 7 weeks.

    4th BFP August 2nd, 2013. Sweet Micah born sleeping at 21 weeks with full T13. 5th BFP July 1st, 2014. Praying for a healthy, full term rainbow!

  • I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • Oh my gosh honey, I am so, so sorry. (((huge hugs))))

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  • I am so very sorry. There are no words.

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  • I am so so sorry. You are in my thoughts. Sending lots of positive energy your way.
  • I am so sorry this is happening to you...I hate this.  thinking of you and your family.  ((HUGS))

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    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

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  • I am so very sorry you are having another loss. ((hugs))

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    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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    I'm so sorry, that's so unfair.  Big big hugs to you!

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  • I'm so so sorry for your loss!!! It's not fair! This sucks beyond words!

    ((((((BIG HUGS)))))

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    I am so very sorry for your loss.  (((((BIG HUGS)))))
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    My heart fell to my stomach when I read this. I wish I had more to say than "I'm sorry," but that's all I have. Those words don't convey how heartbroken I am for you, though. I just want to give you a big, big hug right now.






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  • Thank you all for your kind words. I have to call and schedule my d&e. I'm not sure if I want to put it off or get it over with. This justs sucks.
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  • I am so sorry. 
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  • I'm so so sorry. 

     
    EDD 1/8/10 - our sweet sunshine DD born 12/30/09
    EDD 2/15/14 - Stillbirth at 21 wks 10/02/13
    EDD 8/12/15 - MMC 1/12/15
    EDD 12/24/15

      
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    Oh I am so very sorry! My heart breaks for you. I cannot believe you will be going through loss again. So wish we could all surround you with a group hug right now. I am so sorry.
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  • ((Hugs)) I'm sorry about your loss.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    Adeline Leigh born sleeping 2.11.14 at 39 wks 6 days

    How very softly you tiptoed into our world, almost silently, only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footsteps have left upon our hearts. - Dorothy Ferguson

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    edited February 2014
    I'm so sorry! Sending lots of hugs and prayers as you begin to deal with this again. :-(
  • So so sorry!!! Wish you all the best
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    I'm so very sorry! I Teared up reading this I can't imagine going through a loss again. T&Ps to you.
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  • This breaks my heart. I'm so very sorry.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • Oh, I am so so sorry and wish I could hug you for real. So unfair.
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    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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    Oh, hun. I am so, so, so sorry. This is so unfair. I will never understand why these things happen to good people. You are an amazing mother who has has to deal with more than anyone should ever have to in a lifetime. I am thinking of you and I am sending you so many hugs. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

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    BFP#2 10/18/13  Blighted ovum 11/25/13

    BFP #3 1/31/14 EDD 10/18/14 -- It's a GIRL!

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  • I can't believe you are going through this.  I am so, so sorry. 
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    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
  • Im so sorry... keeping you in my Ts&Ps

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you ♥
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine going through it twice. I will be thinking of you and praying for you.
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  • I'm so sorry :(
    TTC since 5/13
    BFP 1/23 
    MMC 3/4
    D&C-3/12 
    Currently NTNP
  • I am so sorry sweetie!! ((((Hugs)))))
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  • I am so, so, so sorry. 
  • Just saw this now. Mama, I am so, so sorry!! I just can't believe this :(
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  • Oh no. I'm so sorry.  I wish I had the right words.  The only ones I know to say are:  Damn that sucks.  And I'll punch something for you.  I wanted to punch a lot of things when I lost Ellie.  So I guess what I'm saying is that I'll vent anger with you when you're ready
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    12 miscarriages in first marriage (2007-2011)
    Surprise BFP - 06/2013
    Daughter stillborn at 22 weeks - 09/09/2013
    Married my best friend - 09/03/2016
    Genetic testing came back with APS - 10/03/2016
    TTCAL - 10/21/2016
    BFP - 11/18/2016
    EDD of Rainbow baby - 07/30/2017
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