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Bad Things Happen in 3's

Not to be morbid this Monday morning, but has anyone else ever proven this old saying to be true? In the last 12 hours:
1) my mom informed me that a friend of the family's son murdered his girlfriend (out of the blue).
2) my neighbors house got raided by cops and the medics rushed a non-responsive neighbor out on a stretcher (I know he's into drugs).
3) I had to go to the ER for random chest pains.

What the actual fuck.

TTC #1 since 08/2013

BFP#1: 1/6/2014 EDD: 9/17/2014 Natural MC: 1/17/2014 (5w3d)

BFP #2: 6/7/2014 EDD: 2/18/2015 Natural MC 6/19/2014 (5w)

BFP #3: 10/22/14 EDD: 7/1/2015  

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  • JFC!!! So sorry to hear all of this and hope you and your family are okay.
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    TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13  SUCCESS!!!  Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).

    Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!!  Finally on the road to getting better.

    Resumed TTC 7/2014!  Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!!  EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!! 

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  • I'm fine! (Can't speak for the neighbor..) just an interesting night over here! @-)

    TTC #1 since 08/2013

    BFP#1: 1/6/2014 EDD: 9/17/2014 Natural MC: 1/17/2014 (5w3d)

    BFP #2: 6/7/2014 EDD: 2/18/2015 Natural MC 6/19/2014 (5w)

    BFP #3: 10/22/14 EDD: 7/1/2015  

    *Taking Progesterone supplements* Beta 1: 777, Beta 2: 2589 *GROW BABY!*

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  • Sorry to hear, but glad you're okay! Hope your week gets better.
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    BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014
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  • I totally believe bad things happen in 3's. I hope you are ok!

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  • Definitely believe in the 3s thing. Hope you are ok.
  • Wow. That's crazy. I'm sorry!
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  • Yipes, what a way to start your week out! Hopefully the rest of it's not quite so interesting!
  • Wow. I'm glad to see you're ok. I'm sure that was scary :/
  • Whoa. That's a lot of shit in a short period of time! Sorry.
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  • Oh goodness, I'm so sorry. I hope that your pains are nothing serious.

    And yep, I'm a 3 person too.
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  • Wow! Are you okay?
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  • I didn't mean to sound like an AW lol. I'm sure it will be a better week! I'm curious to know what happened at the neighbors :(

    TTC #1 since 08/2013

    BFP#1: 1/6/2014 EDD: 9/17/2014 Natural MC: 1/17/2014 (5w3d)

    BFP #2: 6/7/2014 EDD: 2/18/2015 Natural MC 6/19/2014 (5w)

    BFP #3: 10/22/14 EDD: 7/1/2015  

    *Taking Progesterone supplements* Beta 1: 777, Beta 2: 2589 *GROW BABY!*

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  • The second week in December, a great friend of mine and her boyfriend were killed by her ex husband who then committed suicide. It was so tragic and unexpected. The next day I started bleeding and shortly after my miscarriage was confirmed. Then that weekend there was a huge blow up fight between my family and DH and I and because of that we didn't end up making it to DHs grandma's Christmas party (she's 82 and lives far enough away that we only see her a couple of times a year.)

    Definitely proved the rule of threes in my book.
    I hope that your week gets better from here! 
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    MC 12/2013, Blighted Ovum 04/2014, CP 06/2014
    Began RPL testing 07/2014
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  • My bigmamma would always say that bad things happen in 3's. The month she passed we lost two other close family relatives within a three month period. 

    Also, I hope you are feeling better. 
  • I too believe that things happen in 3's... My family in general believes we are unlucky though, when something bad happens my folks always say "It's the Campbell luck". When I married DH I said hopefully your good luck rubs off on me, but actually I think my bad luck rubbed off on his family. Since we've been married his dad lost the job he'd had since he was a teenager, they had to sell their house and his dad had to have emergency stomach surgery.

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    TTC #1 since September 2013
    BFP Aug 27 2014, EDD- May 9 2015 - MMC Oct 16 2014



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  • Whoa, I hope you're feeling better soon and that it's nothing serious.  Lots of thoughts and prayers for you!

    As for your question - yes, I believe in the rule of threes.  I usually breathe a sigh of relief when the 3rd bad thing happens.
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    August 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + IUI TI = BFN
    September 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
    October 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + IUI canceled
    November 2013:  NTNP
    April 2013:  Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
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  • Yikes! I'm sorry for all the crazy things going on! Try and think positive and that the worst is behind you :) Good luck!

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    April 29, 2014 - First RE appt., right tube needs to be removed and possibly left also if

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  • I'm glad you're okay.  That sounds like a crazy night.

    I also believe in the threes. It's weird, but I also believe that the threes are in some way always related. And I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop.



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  • I also believe it. One year I had one of my students die, my uncle die, and someone else, I just can't remember at this time, all die in 1 year. Then this year we have had three staff members that had suddenly lost loved ones this year. One lost her son in a car accident. One lost her niece and her neices children to an angry exboyfriend, and the nurse lost her husband from diabetic complications.
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  • Holy Crap! I hope you are feeling better :(
    BFP#1 6/2013: MMC 8/2013 @ 6 wks, 3 d
    BFP#2 1/2014: CP 1/2014 @ 3 wks, 4 d
    BFP#3 4/2014: MC 4/2014 @ 4 wks, 1 d
    Break until Dec 2014
    Femara, aspirin and progesterone started 12/2015
    Still working on #2!

        
     
  • I'm really sorry! I hope better luck comes to stay soon.


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  • It happens often... I always notice it. I'm a big believer that things happen in threes (good and bad)! But yes, sometimes I question if I'm looking into it and making something the third... Ya know? Either way... I've heard it!
  • I have always said bad things come in 3's. I hope yours are done now! ((hugs))
                                        
                                   
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  • Ugh, that sounds terrible. So crazy about your family friend's son. WTF!


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  • There's an Irish saying...deaths come in threes and then a baby is born. Maybe you'll have a BfP this month!
  • And, sorry to hear about all this. I hope you get 3 good things next!
  • I'm very superstitious so I totally believe in the "bad things happen in 3's". I hope you're ok and you don't have anymore bad news!
  • Hope you feel better. Death at my hospital usually comes in threes. We all believe it.
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