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Thoughts and Prayers, please (older kids mentioned)

Hi ladies. DH and I were in a 3 car accident about an hour ago driving to worship band practice. We had our two sons in the car also. Everyone is ok -just seatbelt bruises/rash. All three cars were totaled. We were rear ended and spun into the concrete guardrail. We hit the rail a total of three times before coming to a stop. We had church friends come pick us up and we are getting ready for worship band practice now.

Our car has been towed and I have started the insurance claim, but I've never totaled a vehicle, so I don't know exactly how all this works. Please pray that we can get a rental car and that our car will be replaced completely with no out of pocket expense.

Thank you so much for your prayers and thoughts. Love you ladies!
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  • Oh no I'm so sorry to hear this! I've been in an accident where a car is totaled and it's scary. I'll be praying for you and your family. So many (((hugs)))

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  • T&Ps your way! Glad everyone is safe, and hope you are able to sort things out. ((HUGS))

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  • How frightening! I'm glad everybody is ok. 

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  • I'm glad everybody was okay!
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  • And now the insurance is saying we don't have rental car coverage, which I was told when we gotthe insurance that we did... ugh... annoying
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  • I'm glad that everyone is safe! And I hope that you can get everything straightened out quickly!

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  • Cars can be replaced, I'm so glad you guys are okay considering how bad the outcome could have been.
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  • Oh no! That sounds completely terrifying. I'm glad everyone is okay. I've never dealt with totaling a car before, but I hope it goes smoothly with the insurance.



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  • Oh my goodness. I'm so glad that you are all not majorly hurt. T&Ps that you can get all the insurance stuff figured out ASAP. Did you buy your insurance directly through a company or through an agent? If you purchased through an agent, contact them immediately. There may also be a chance that you can cover the rental through the person that hit you.
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  • Oh wow. I am so terribly sorry to hear this but am thankful you are ok!!!








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  • Oh how scary.So glad no one was seriously injured. You are all in my prayers.
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  • I am glad everyone is okay! I hope your insurance takes care of everything.
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  • So scary, I'm glad everyone is ok. I hope your insurance makes it as easy and painless as possible for you!

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  • Glad you're all ok!! T&P your way!
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    Definitely praying for you and your family!! How scary :(. Glad you are all ok.
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  • I'm glad that everybody is ok. I totaled my car in college. They had an appraiser come out and decide how much my car was worth. I was sent a check for that amount so I could buy a new car. My car was about 15 years old, so it wasn't a large amount. Then, they towed it away for me (I had it parked at my apartment).
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  • So glad everyone is okay. Accidents are so scary ((hugs))

    I work for a car insurance company on a side note; if you were rear ended that vehicle is 100% at fault and even if you don't have rental you can claim rental coverage through the at fault party.. (This is assuming your insurance laws are similar to mine in ny of course) If you don't know who the other driver has and you have a police report call your insurance company and ask if they can tell you who the other driver has and call and make a claim under their policy!!

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  • So sorry this happened to you all, but my thoughts and prayers are with you guys! Glad you guys are okay. ((Hugs))

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  • So scary, I am glad everyone is ok. Sending thoughts and prayers your way!

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  • I'm glad everyone is ok. ((Hugs))
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  • T&Ps headed your way, I'm glad everyone was okay.

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  • Oh my goodness!  That is so scary.  I am so glad everyone was ok.  I don't have any insurance experience, but I will keep FX for you.



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  • I am so sorry to hear this!!! I'm glad that everyone is ok! My T&P are with you and your family. (((Hugs)))

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  • @morethansparrows08 thinking of you and your family today. How is everyone feeling today? You are in my prayers.
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  • @dajhughes Thank you for checking in. Everyone is doing ok today. The kids are completely unscathed, which is such a huge blessing. I have some bruising on my chest where the seatbelt was and a couple small bruises on my hips. DH isreally feeling it today - very sore and stiff. Will probably be going to he doc tomorrow to get checked out. Lots of bruises on his chest. His side was hit the most.

    Thanks to all of you ladies for thinking of us and praying for us. We were truly blessed and well protected. Not many accidents on that highway are injury-free, especially with 3 cars and 7 people.
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  • Oh no!!! That is scary. Glad everyone is ok @MoreThanSparrows08. I hope the insurance process is a smooth one.
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  • @morethansparrows I am so sorry! I am glad your and your family are ok! I hope things are looking better and the insurance is getting straightened out! Praying for you!
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  • So glad you are all ok! Hope everything goes smoothly with the insurance process and there are no uneeded headaches!

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  • Glad everyone is ok, T&P.
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