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Very New and feeling....

laxin31laxin31 member
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feeling well I am already a bad person.  Please don't get me wrong I want a kid but when it comes to the whole pregnant things I want nothing to deal with this.  I hope I am not the only one who feels this way.  I didn't read up on my pregnancy 101 when we were starting to try...heck we just really started a month ago and look what happens.  I don't like the idea of my body changing and all the gross things that come with pregnancy.  We have not told anyone not even our parents.  I think we have been in shock the last few days and trying to wrap our minds around the pregnancy and things that we need to take care of now that don't even involve being pregnant due to being pregnant need to get dealt with.  I am more just hoping I am not the only one who has felt this way at first.   
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Re: Very New and feeling....

  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member

    Plenty of people don't enjoy being pregnant. And you may have an easy pregnancy.

    What sorts of things do you need to take care of?

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  • laxin31laxin31 member
    Things like having my kitchen finished up, Making sure our house in Florida has renters.  As well as getting a new car sooner.  Some things were things that were going to happen in the first place but its now like we really need to get things done with and make sure the budget is set up correctly.
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member
    Now you have 8 months to get them done. Take it one task at a time and you should be fine. Find some boards where you can get some ideas from other moms. GL
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  • laxin31laxin31 member
    What has to get done now has nothing to do with why I feel like a horrible person.  It is more that I don't want my body changing I don't like the idea of all the gross things that come from pregnancy.  I am not one of those OMG that is so cute kind of people.  That is more why I feel like a bad person.  I know things will get done I am not really worried so much just realize we really have to get them done rather than push them off a little bit.  
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member
    You knew going into it your body would change. And like I said, not everyone enjoys pregnancy. But it won't stay that way forever. GL
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