So I received a copy of the doctors' notes while Marley was in the hospital. Some doctor assessed her to have plagiocephaly which is a mishapened head. That really threw me 'cause I don't think her head is mishapened. I know that she has physical characteristics that pertain to her syndrome- but I am so tired of getting all these negative observations of her appearance. I know doctors have to be nitpicky but I just feel so sensitive about it.
It reminds me of when she was born and the geneticist would make all these random comments about Marley's appearance. Gee, I just love to hear all the ways that my daughter looks abnormal!?
Re: Annoyed
A doctor's objective assessment is really just an opinion. And often it's not even a smart opinion (I'm an RN so I can say this with some authority). I can see where random comments could really start to wear you down. But, honestly, she is a pretty baby. Look at those gorgeous pink lips and super sweet eyes! She's beautiful and some doctors are dumb....
On the contrary, I mentioned my son's flat spot (which is very noticable in every direction even with hair) at each pedi visit after about 4 months b/c it was so noticeable & they told me it was nothing - it'll fix itself.
FFWD to 2 years old - we're trapsing around to specialists for his ear tag removal & the plastic surgeon asked me if they ever tried a helmet, diagnosed him with the Plagiocephaly & tells me that NO it probably wont ever change. ?He then gave me advice on how to cut his hair....
?UGH UGH UGH UGH.
I know, he'll be ok. ?Its cosmetic.... but it just blows my mind that they nitpick on some that dont need nitpicking & they blow it off for others.?