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What is the world coming to! NBFR

dmndsr4evadmndsr4eva member
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Did you all know that there is now an app that you can add to your phone to hide all texts from certain people?  The app is also hidden apparently so there is no way to know if this has been added to the phone.  So say you were having an affair you can hide all of the texts from and to that person on your phone.  My friend was just telling me about this earlier because I was telling her that my FI seems to be back on the straight and narrow and has been transparent with his phone, etc.  Also Sprint does not provide any information on texts to their customers.  The regular monthly bill only displays calls, no texts.  The only way to get a copy of texts is to send them a notarized form and they will provide you with 90 days of texts and you have to send a notarized form every time you want a copy.

Of course the bottom line is you should trust your partner but apparently these days it is extremely easy to hide things.
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Re: What is the world coming to! NBFR

  • ambrvanambrvan member
    You and your relationship will be much better if you do not discuss things of this nature with your friends/family. Sometimes, there is one person who you can talk to that won't down your partner, but more often than not, they're on your side of the dramatic fence. Although it may come from what they think is a place of good intentions, if you are determined to try to be positive and give your relationship another try, you should probably keep this subject closely guarded against friends and family.

    I have one friend, whom I have been best friends with since Kindergarten through distance and years apart, and we made a promise to one another that when the other needs to talk about a situation involving their spouse, no negativity is allowed from the listening party. And we both are very careful not to discuss anything particularly emotionally painful at the time so that the other friend does not form a bad opinion of our spouse. Because you know that while one day you can just want to wring his neck and the next day you can love him again, those who love you can hold those things against them forever.

    Here's to hoping for happiness!
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