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throw back thursday

MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
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This was one of my first boyfriends, james. He was the biggest sweetie, we datef when we were 16. So back in 06-07. He was such a sweet heart, i was so in love with him.

I talked to him briefley a few years ago a couple days before my wedding, turns out he was gay and didnt know it till dating me but didnt want to come out of the closet cause his mom was very catholic.
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  • tig594tig594 member
    He's cute!
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  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    These all are between 3 and 4 years ago, first one was with one of my best friends, the other two are with my sister
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    tig594 said:

    He's cute!

    He was such a cutie lol.
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  • HollykathleenrHollykathleenr member
    Here is me and my two little sisters (and I am so dating myself by showing off us sporting our early 90's dresses lol)image
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  • Gamera3000Gamera3000 member
    Omg @minnesotamomma91 that boy is so precious! It's about what I think my son will look like at that age! You must have meant a lot to him for him to want to go out with you before he came out. My second best friend came out in college and I know HS was really hard for him.
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Gamera3000 said:

    Omg @minnesotamomma91 that boy is so precious! It's about what I think my son will look like at that age! You must have meant a lot to him for him to want to go out with you before he came out. My second best friend came out in college and I know HS was really hard for him.

    I wish wed have stayed close, he was there for me through a really dark time in my life. At the time we were dating i was sexually assulted, anorexic and bulimic, i was heavy into self mutilation, i was acting out and my parents were threatening to send me to rehab.

    He was the only person i could talk to about everything, and he was the one who got me to seak help. Id be honered and so happy if bentley turns out to be half the man james was.
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  • Gamera3000Gamera3000 member
    Aw that made me tear up a little! *hugs* @minnesotamomma91
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Thanks @gamera3000 i hope hes doing well. When we were 18 we attempted to date again, he still hadnt come out. We turned into each others enablers. I was still dealing with my demons and was back to barely eating and chain smoking so i wasnt hungry. He got heavy into drinking, smoking cigarettes and pot.

    Long story short a group of our friends had an intervention for us and basically told us we had to stay away from each other till we got healthy. We didnt talk till a couple years ago when he texted me a week before my wedding when he told me he was gay. Unfortunatley my very controling xh saw the texts and freaked out on me for talking to another man. We havent talked since but i did just look him up on facebook.

    Also i just found this gif.
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