Question about GC, wwtprd?

Re: Question about GC, wwtprd?

• sammer818 member

  February 2014

  I don't think it's unreasonable to ask her to test. I know our GC already bought a test to use because I am pretty sure she is almost as excited for us to have a baby as we are. We haven't even had our retrieval yet and she's already talking about not being able to wait until the scheduled blood draw. 

  
  

  TTC since April 2010
  BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
  BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
  Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
  BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
  Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
  BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
  BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
  No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
  June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
  
  ~All AL always welcome~

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• lincoln79 member

  February 2014

  thanks for your thoughts ladies

  @sammer818 - that's hilarious! fwiw, we have never had more than 13 at ER and we have always had 5dt and sometimes frosties. i just keep trying to view this cycle as fundamentally different, we both changed a major part of the equation to give ourselves a better chance.

  (((hugs))), i know how hard this is.

  
  

  TTC #1 since 12/2010 DH: MFI, cancer survivor Me: Resected septate uterus, lap treated mild endo, tubes open, ovulate on own, autoimmune disease 3 Failed IUI's (2/2012, 4/2012, 6/2012) 

  IVF #1 August 2012. BFP! Beta #1 56.7 Beta #2 150 One baby, one heartbeat on 9/20/12! no h/b @7w6d. dandc @8w0d, 

  FET #1 December 2012, BFN

  FET #2 February 2013, no embies survived thaw

  IVF #2, BFP #2, Loss #2 March 2013, Scar tissue discovered, RPL testing,

  IVF #3, BFP #3, Loss #3 (twins) September 2013

  Hostile ute, moving onto Gestational Carrier!

  
  

  GC/FET #1 of 1 5AA blast and 1 compacted blast, February 2014, BFP #4 on 3/1/2014!

  6w u/s 1 bean with h/b of 145 bpm, 8w u/s 187 bpm

  EDD 11/7/14. Please, please, please stick little one!
  
  Praying unceasingly for a miracle. ALL welcome!

  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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• Mama-Bear member

  February 2014

  It's really up to you but if you want her to test I'm sure she'd be more than happy to.  My FIP's didn't care if I tested but they didn't want to know anything until the BETA.  I couldn't wait so I started testing at 4dp5dt every 12ish hours.  I finally got a BFP at 5.5dp5dt.  It was torture not to tell them for another 4.5 days.  The nurse called me first with the results and I asked if I could please tell my IM, I still remember calling her, pretending like it was nothing, like I'd not gotten the results, then spilling the beans.  Sorry for rambling, it was such a wonderful time for all of us.  Again, if you want her to test, just ask her to, just don't get discouraged if she tests early and doesn't get a BFP right away.

  
  GSx1 - 05/13/2013
  GSx2 for T&B - EDD 6/21/2015 - They're having a GIRL!
  

  

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• DoulaRaVenMa member

  February 2014

  This last transfer Me & my IPs talked about it & they waited me to test & so did I but if they didn't I would not have tested as I have a big mouth lol
  With my IPs with their 1st son who I carried for them we didn't really talk about it & I ended up testing & telling them which they where ok with
  But we just transferred again for baby #2 and where getting BFP but the beta was not good & ended in MC
  That was really hard for us IDK if I will test again when we transfer again.
  I think its a great ideas to buy the test & just give them to her on transfer day.
  Best Of Luck to you!!!
  Lots of Baby Dust <:-P ~*~*~*~* :x

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