I was watching that show "Who the #$&@! did I marry?" last night. Specifically the one about the DC Sniper. He disappeared with his kids for something like 18 months before the mom got the kids back and he started shooting people. There was no custody order in place at the time. What would you do if your BD's did something like that? I don't think I could function not knowing where my baby was and if she was alright. How could you get through a work day? I guess you'd have to so you could pay the detectives to find your kids. I just could not imagine having to go through that.
Re: WWYD?
And if BD ever grew balls to do anything to DD, he wouldn't get in the door to my house without losing a limb.