What's your love language?

LokiLahve · February 2014

DH & I read this book a few years ago after our therapist suggested it. We were in a rough patch & it really helped us understand what was important to the other.

https://www.5lovelanguages.com

Click above & take the survey then c&p or type your results below. You may be surprised by what your language is. Have your DH take it also!

My top 2 are physical touch & words of affirmation. DH's are acts of service & words of affirmation.

Eta: I'm in no way affiliated with this...just thought it would be fun

kwrecks · February 2014

I got Physical Touch and Quality Time. Both things make complete sense.

I can't wait for DH to take it when he gets home.

Kebert618 · February 2014

My mom gave DH and I this book when we got married. It's an awesome read and have loaned it to many friends! I'm words of affirmation and physical touch.
There is also a Love Languages for Childten book that I read before even getting pregnant. I initially read it to help me understand my students better but also for our future LO's.
awesome read for parents. I think it will really help with toddler years and beyond.

LokiLahve · February 2014

@kebert618 I noticed the child option on the online quiz...is there a separate book for kids? I could see that being very helpful as our lo's get older!

I read the adult book several times. I noticed the first time I read it when we were having issues & I really took In everything that applied to myself, more so than DH. The second time we were in a really good spot & I picked up more on things for him...different perspectives.

I've also noticed your language can change. (I think the book mentions this). Back then mine was quality time, now touch & words are higher than time...pre lo vs post lo changes I guess?

MommyAmes2 · February 2014

I got a 6 on all of them... How odd. Guess I am all of the above. Ha!

janneann1127 · February 2014

DH and I did this a couple years ago. We are both quality time, which works out well for us.

nnikki10 · February 2014

So funny my MIL just got us this book for us for Valentine's Day. She got her and FIL too. I got acts of service and second highest was physical touch. Which is pretty spot on.

Emeraldeyed315 · February 2014

Thanks for posting. I signed up for the challenge too.

Revez · February 2014

I got words of affirmation with gifts and physical touch as close seconds. H got physical touch with quality time and word of affirmation as seconds.

carrotcake06 · February 2014

I got physical touch and words of affirmation. Spot on.

Acts of service was low but I think that's bc MH does so much for our family. I don't wish he do more but I do very much appreciate how much he does.

Texasmomma13 · February 2014

We took this a few years ago too. I am words of Affirmation and acts of service, no surprise there. DH stayed up after I went to bed friday night and cleaned the kitchen. When I got up saturday and noticed he scrubed the stove top clean, I was more excited than when he gave me chocolates for V day. It's the little things that mean so much to me.

LokiLahve · February 2014

Oops....this was meant for bitchfest.

Texasmomma13 · February 2014

MommyAmes2 said:

I got a 6 on all of them... How odd. Guess I am all of the above. Ha!

Does this mean that you love "love"?

Marvel1013 · February 2014

I got acts of service, and number 2 tied with psychical touch and quality time

LJUTCMommy · February 2014

Words of Affirmation and Quality Time are tied for the top spot. I'd say that's pretty accurate.

Kebert618 · February 2014

@lokilahve
Yes, there is a separate kid book. I plan to read it again soon!
The 5 Love Languages of Children by Gary D Chapman et al. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802403476/ref=cm_sw_r_udp_awd_uPKatb1C51KRZ

danadane75 · February 2014

I got quality time. Im guessing because every question talked about wanting gifts from H so I picked the only other answer. It needed more choices for sure!

V&G101808 · February 2014

Quality time was my top with words of affirmation & physical touch tied for 2nd.

I 100% agree with QT and words of affirmation!

azzy1206 · February 2014

Oh I have this book... Mine is quality time. My hubbys is words of affirmation.

Snowbird7 · February 2014

Wine, mostly.

PTmama199 · February 2014

I got words of affirmation. Makes sense, I constantly need reaffirmation that I'm doing a good job or I start getting paranoid. Not so much in my love life though but definitely with my work life. Everything else is tied except for touch which only got a 1, I don't like to be touched except cuddling with LO.

CharmedBAcMF · February 2014

I'm tied on acts of service and physical touch. With quality time and words of affirmation bringing up the rear.

Sounds about right for me. I'll have DH take this later.

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