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Buttercup509Buttercup509 member
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I went in for my 16 week check up on Thursday and they couldn't find a heartbeat. The ultrasound showed that baby stopped growing at 13 weeks. This was my first pregnancy. My EDD was July 31st.

I had a D&C on Friday. Physically, I feel better than I expected. Emotionally, I'm all over the place. Sometimes I just don't know what to feel. Even though it's not time to TTC again, the thought of another loss frightens me.

We have custody of our 2 year old niece and she keeps me pretty distracted. If she wasn't here I think I would probably stay in bed all day.

I'm so sorry for everyone's losses. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone.


TTC since May 2013
BFP #1 11/22/13 EDD 7/31/14
MMC 13 weeks - discovered 2/13/14 at 16 weeks - Trisomy 13 - D&C 2/14/14
BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
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  • jduganrnjduganrn member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. This was my first pregnancy too and I go for a d&c tomorrow. I'm glad this forum exists though that way I can say whatever is on my mind and you all understand and help me grieve and cope.
    Husband and I had the same conversation a couple days ago about how I'm so nervous to ttc after this fearing another loss. But he reminded me that if we put such pressure on ourselves about the worst case scenario we will always be afraid. If we weren't afraid, we wouldn't be human. There is always the possibility of it happening again, which I won't lie, would really suck, but our focus has to shift so we can possibly have better times to come, and if not, we will draw near each other again and get through it the same way we are now. He's my best friend through good times and bad and I wouldn't have chosen a better person to go through it with. Sorry so long, but I hope you find peace and comfort beyond your own understanding :)
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  • jesswein9jesswein9 member
    So sorry for your loss, it sucks that any of us have to be here.

    Me (28) DH (27)
    Married June 2012
    Started TTC July 2013
         BFP #1          August 2013          EDD 4/29/14            natural MC at 6-7 week
    BFP #2         January 2014         EDD 9/24/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #3         March 2014            EDD 12/4/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #4         August 2014            EDD 4/20/15        Hoping for our rainbow
                                                It's a BOY!
     
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  • dawnstar898dawnstar898 member
    Welcome and sorry for your loss

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

    ***Everybody Welcomed***  :)  

    EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!

    IAmPregnant Tickerrainbows                

     photo Multiple4_zps436a50cc.jpg photo April3_zps882432ab.jpg August 2 

    August 2015 Siggy Challenge: Favorite mean girl from a movie or show:  Kathy Bates in "Misery"

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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    ((Hugs)) I'm so sorry.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • veetveetveetveet member
    Sorry for your loss xo
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  • sonjaleakesonjaleake member
    I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. It was my first pregnancy too. I've spent as much time as possible with our nieces and my kids at work as its difficult to focus on much else with them around. Take care of yourself. Hugs.
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