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jonahsmajonahsma member
in Late Term and Child Loss

During this journey I have found comfort in music . Sometimes i feel a certain way and cant explain it. There are a couple of songs that get me through. They are very powerful to me. If you would like take a listen.. I hope they touch someone. ((hugs))   OCEANS : Hillsong united     HELD: Natalie Grant

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  • schulme2schulme2 member
    edited February 2014
    Omg! Oceans has so been my song lately. Whenever I need to just refocus and almost center myself, that song is it! :-) thank you for sharing!
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  • stefugestefuge member
    I second that about Oceans - I have been listening to it obsessively! Also - Broken Hallelujah by The Afters is beautiful and so encouraging. Thanks for sharing!
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  • schulme2schulme2 member
    @stefuge so funny, I just instagrammed this the other day...
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  • neptunebljcneptunebljc member
    Stars by Grace Potter and the Nocturnals is good. Kind of sad too.
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  • jonahsmajonahsma member
    schulme2 said:
    Omg! Oceans has so been my song lately. Whenever I need to just refocus and almost center myself, that song is it! :-) thank you for sharing!

    stefuge said:
    I second that about Oceans - I have been listening to it obsessively! Also - Broken Hallelujah by The Afters is beautiful and so encouraging. Thanks for sharing!

    No problem gals...I am always playing Oceans in the car and as much as DH loves it I think its driving him crazy lol. But it makes me feel good. I have heard Broken Hallelujah but never really paid attention to the lyrics until today and it gave me chills!!
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  • neptunebljcneptunebljc member
    I've never heard of the Oceans.  I will have to check them out.
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  • kz's_girlygirlkz's_girlygirl member
    Encouraging songs don't really help me that much., lol. I like songs that give voice to my pain and anger and sadness. Here's a playlist I made:

    Kerosene by Jetty Rae <----(this song was on repeat for days right after Jesse died)
    Small Bump by Ed Sheeran
    Ten by Yellowcard
    The child is gone by Fiona Apple
    Weight of Living pt.1 by Bastille
    My Heart is Broken by evanescence
    I grieve by Peter Gabriel
    This Gift by Glen Handard
    Undone by FFF
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  • jonahsmajonahsma member
    Thanks for your playlist! im going on you tube now lol
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  • ikrystalikrystal member
    For sure  - Dixie Chicks - "Godspeed, Sweet Dreams."  This played at my boys' memorial. 
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWww880E9wU   

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  • Maybe JoleisaMaybe Joleisa member
    edited February 2014
    I'm sitting here YouTubing these songs and blubbering. Great thread--thanks for sharing! I'll add Christina Perri's 'A Thousand Years.'

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  • jonahsmajonahsma member
    I just heard small bump by ed sheeran.... ,@ Maybe Joleisa I love a thousand years!!!
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