This is really just a general question. I know that all of us have gone through different experiences, so our answers would naturally be different. My point is that with a pregnancy after a loss, should I be considered high-risk and what does that mean exactly? I tried to Google it, but every source gives different (and sometimes conflicting) information. Some of the sites say that anyone who experienced pregnancy and a loss should be considered high risk the second time around automatically. Meanwhile, other sites say that every pregnancy is different and high-risk can only be determined if the specific pregnancy poses any problems. My situation last year was a partial molar pregnancy, and the doctor suspects that it was due to 2 sperm fertilizing 1 egg, although he wasn't able to confirm it. He told me that it was more like a "fluke" than a problem that is likely to happen again. The only risk I had (since my betas dropped every month) would have been if I got pregnant after the loss within 6 months or so, which I did not. Therefore, I figure that I'm probably not applicable for the high-risk designation. Does anyone know what being high-risk really means? I hope that I am not offending anyone who knows that she is high-risk, because I truly don't know what it means. I am just trying to figure out what might be important to ask during my pre-natal appointment. Thanks girls!!
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BFP#1: 2/2/13 ~ exact m/c date unknown but
around 3/20 at 10 weeks ~ diagnosed with PMP ~ D&C on 4/5 ~ TTA for at
least 1 year due to PMP ~ cleared to TTC 1/14
BFP#2: 2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due
to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed
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Re: Are pregnancies after losses considered high-risk in general?
If there is an underlying, significant health condition that caused the first miscarriage, however, THAT could contribute to being high risk, but that is not the case for the majority of losses (i think most first miscarriages are attributed to spontaneous chromosomal abnormalities or something went wrong when sperm met egg).
Regarding your partial molar since you waited the appropriate amount of time, I think the only other possible risk is that it puts you with a fairly minuscule heightened risk of having another molar . However, as I understand it, it has absolutely no bearing on the outcome of a normal pregnancy and does not make you high risk. If your doc has already confirmed that this is a normal pregnancy, you should be fine in that regard.
ETA: hit post too soon and clarifying...I would simply ask your doc if there is anything in your medical record that would lead them to believe that you might be high risk. No harm in asking, but they will also tell you if they are concerned.
Also adding that I have had one miscarriage and one complete molar pregnancy and my doctor did not consider me high risk with this new pregnancy.
BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12
BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until August 2013
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BFP#1: 2/2/13 ~ exact m/c date unknown but around 3/20 at 10 weeks ~ diagnosed with PMP ~ D&C on 4/5 ~ TTA for at least 1 year due to PMP ~ cleared to TTC 1/14
BFP#2: 2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed
Surprise BFP#3: 4/4/14 ~ super duper extra happy (and nervous) about this one - EDD 12/9/14!!!
John Joseph was born on 12/12/14 at 7 lbs. 11 oz. He is the most beautiful rainbow baby we could have wished for!
As others have said, it depends on the loss. I had a loss at 20 weeks (PTL) which automatically moves me to a high risk status on any subsequent pregnancy and will put me under the care of a MFM if I can make it past 8 weeks.
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I don't mid being high risk, because the status allows m OB to be very thorough without too many insurance concerns. So far, this pregnancy has been normal but I did get an extra glucose test and some additional ultrasounds and blood tests.
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You are welcome! I know how scary molars are. I was referring to early miscarriages with my first response; as other posters have rightfully pointed out, later term losses are a whole different matter. However, since you have just had the one partial molar pregnancy, I would guess that your doc won't consider you high risk (unless you have other health stuff going on that you haven't shared), but definitely ask him some pointed questions. The chances of another molar, while slightly heightened after having had one, is still really, really, really low. I've got everything crossed for you! When is your first appointment? Keep me posted.
BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12
BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until August 2013
IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN
IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN
BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014 Please stick and grow, LO!
Additional Dx: hypothyroidism, TgAb positive & anti-TPO positive, POR/DOR (2/2013), and suspected endometriosis
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There are some cases where the cause/type of loss could make à person high risk though. Later losses, IC, clotting issues come to mind.
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Even though your OB does not consider you high risk based on your age alone, I absolutely encourage you to ask to be co-monitored by an MFM. Your age does put you in a high risk category. I'm trying to word this so I don't add to PgAL fears but I am speaking from experience in having been 40 with my first pg, completely healthy, and having an OB who felt that I was not at risk because I was so healthy. My pg was uneventfull until the day it wasn't and I kick myself for not asking to be under the care of an MFM also.
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BFP#1: 2/2/13 ~ exact m/c date unknown but around 3/20 at 10 weeks ~ diagnosed with PMP ~ D&C on 4/5 ~ TTA for at least 1 year due to PMP ~ cleared to TTC 1/14
BFP#2: 2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed
Surprise BFP#3: 4/4/14 ~ super duper extra happy (and nervous) about this one - EDD 12/9/14!!!
John Joseph was born on 12/12/14 at 7 lbs. 11 oz. He is the most beautiful rainbow baby we could have wished for!
I'm trying to word this so I don't add to PgAL fears but I am speaking from experience in having been 40 with my first pg, completely healthy, and having an OB who felt that I was not at risk because I was so healthy. My pg was uneventfull until the day it wasn't and I kick myself for not asking to be under the care of an MFM also.
Speaking as an AMA'er here. Bug is right. I am not seen by an MFM, but my docs are extra watchful. Outwardly, I am treated like other patients, but both they and I are extra vigilant for complications.
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Hoping to join you ladies soon. Just had to say thanks for this post. I had a healthy 1st pregnancy other than being induced at 38.5 weeks for increased blood pressure. I then had a loss at 20 weeks. We believe it was due to a cord accident and was a fluke (had genetic testing done early with no problems) but are still waiting for the autopsy results to rule out anything else. I was wondering if I would be considered high risk in subsequent pregnancies or not based on that. Also wasn't sure what type of extra monitoring I may be able to request even if I'm not considered high risk. This has been hugely helpful!
BFP #1- 4/2011; DD Brynn born 12/2011
BFP #2- 7/13; EDD- 4/2/14; Lost DS at 20 weeks (11/16/13) due to cord accident
BFP #3- 3/14; EDD- 11/28/14; Lost DD at 15 weeks (6/7/14)- cause unknown
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I am not very familiar with a molar pregnancy, but from what I understand there is nothing that can be done for one, so extra monitoring would not do any good for another one, so there is really nothing an MFM could do that a regular OB couldn't. Good luck!
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Good luck to you!