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Pregnancy or not..

anitabanitaanitabanita member
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Hey guys, so I found out I was pregnant yesterday after experiencing some abnormally early symptoms. My boyfriend bought me sunflowers and a big basket of custard apples (my favorites) and we had a very romantic night together, we are very happy about the news of our second. But now I'm starting to wonder if my symptoms are abnormal because I might be carrying multiples; I had Paraguard in for about a year and the entire time I was using it I was bleeding, the second I took it out last month the bleeding stopped, I'm wondering if my system could be out of order and somehow released extras eggs this month... I really hope not because if I am pregnant with multiples I will have to abort every last one of them. From what I've read of abortion, it sounds really unpleasant. Could Paraguard have had such an affect on my system even though it isn't hormonal? Does anyone have experience conceiving after a bad experience with Paraguard? Does anyone have experience with abortion here? Multiple abortions?
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Re: Pregnancy or not..

  • anitabanitaanitabanita member
    edited February 2014
    Carrie3102 said:

    OOOhhhh if you want you could go ahead and have all the multiples, I mean it is very likely due to your hightened symptoms early on that you are carrying multiples. 

    It sounds like you are excited for one baby just not more.  So have them all and then put the remaining babies you don't want up for adoption, that way you could choose which one you thought was cutest and get rid of the rest by just dropping them at a fire station or police station. 

    This is probably the best way to go, you know because likely you prefer one sex over the other anyway right?

    I wouldn't see a midwife or OB either way though, they just get in the way, I'd skip prenatal care all together.

    Seems like you're making to big a deal of this, it's too easy to solve, you get one, and throw away the others... What do you think?


    I dont want to give birth to multiples, so I wouldnt want to produce a single of multiples either. Interestingly enough, I did just read an article about women using IVF and then choosing to abort specific fetuses which seemed odd to me, but I'm not one to judge
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  • anitabanitaanitabanita member
    mermomo5 said:
    As my parting gift ,might I suggest this? Do us all a favor an practice safe sex because we all know you aren't pregnant. Trojan photo logo_trojan.gif

    Who wants to play mancala?
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