It seems one of the big stressors is how I will fit in each appointment. I am a therapist and I hate canceling appts. I've been so fortunate so far (knock on wood) and things have worked out. I don't typically schedule clients Thursdays so that has helped (like today!)
Well my next ovary check is Friday the 21st which is cd11. Last month I did IUI on cd14 which in this case would be Monday and I have a subpoena to testify in court that day for a court ordered client... Soooo now I'm stressed at the possibility of that being when iui would have to happen. I mean chances are good if might not be that day, but chances are also good that it could be!!
I plan on calling the attorney tomorrow to find out if maybe I can come in later if she knows she won't call me right away or maybe explain briefly that I may have a medical procedure but don't know yet but that if I have to do it I have to? I mean, regardless of being subpoenaed and even regardless of this being a personal choice, I CAN'T have wasted all the money and time I already have this cycle!
So really hoping this works out somehow. Any advice??                
                Me: 32  DH: 33  Married: March 2004
July 2006: started TTC
2008: HSG (normal), couple rounds of clomid through gyno
2008 - 2010: dragging my feet out of fear and procrastination
October 2010: first consultation with RE, dx PCOS and fibroids (DH slightly low count/motility)
Oct. 2010 - Dec. 2012:  In DENIAL! avoided the issue because I was scared of surgery
January 2013: returned to RE, fibroids grew significantly
February 2013: second HSG, fibroids pushed on tubes which blocked them somewhat
March 2013: MRI to determine what type of surgery may be necessary
July 29, 2013: fibroids (5) removed via robotic laparascopy
August 2013 - Nov 2013 : benched due to recent surgery
IUI #1, Dec. 24, 2013, BFN  
IUI #2, Jan. 25, 2014, BFN 
IUI #3, Feb. 25, 2014  BFN 
IUI #4 canceled due to lack of response to letrozole
IUI #4.1 April 28, 2014, BFN 
May 16, 2014: wtf consult, start prepping for IVF in June and add injects for one last IUI in the meantime
IUI #5 started letrozole and bravelle but canceled after HSG led to new diagnosisMay 21, 2014: third HSG, tubes blocked, one at the beginning, one hydrosalpinx??June 11, 2014: consult, approved to move on to IVF because the hydro is not completely blocked therefore allowing fluid to move through slowly rather than backwards
IVF #1 August 8, 2014 - 3dt of 2 embryos, BFN
September 17, 2014 - 4th HSG, the right tube is very patent (open!!) dye went straight through this time. Weird! 
October 2, 2014 - started metformin treatment 
November 14, 2014 - blood work, brought A1C down from 5.8 to 5.5
November 26, 2014 - RE finally back from vaca and reviewed my chart, no more IVFs for rest of calendar year
December 1, 2014 - Right after Thanksgiving, I called a new clinic and got in right away! Plan for IVF
December 17, 2014 - ER! 29 retrieved (!!), 16 mature, all 16 fertilized (ICSI)
IVF #2 December 20, 2014 - 3dt of 3 embryos, BFN
We are done with treatment unsuccessfully. 
 PAIF/SAIF/All Welcome!
    
              
        
Re: Stress over timing of appts and procedures!!
TTC since 08/2012
DX: DOR
Waited a long time, tried a lot of stuff, science made me a mom.
As for triggering a different day, I thought of that too and that could work but I just don't want any potential effectiveness to be affected by having to go to court! lol.
We'll see.. hopefully it all works out!
2008: HSG (normal), couple rounds of clomid through gyno
2008 - 2010: dragging my feet out of fear and procrastination
October 2010: first consultation with RE, dx PCOS and fibroids (DH slightly low count/motility)
Oct. 2010 - Dec. 2012: In DENIAL! avoided the issue because I was scared of surgery
January 2013: returned to RE, fibroids grew significantly
February 2013: second HSG, fibroids pushed on tubes which blocked them somewhat
March 2013: MRI to determine what type of surgery may be necessary
July 29, 2013: fibroids (5) removed via robotic laparascopy
August 2013 - Nov 2013 : benched due to recent surgery
IUI #3, Feb. 25, 2014 BFN
IUI #4 canceled due to lack of response to letrozole
IUI #4.1 April 28, 2014, BFN
May 16, 2014: wtf consult, start prepping for IVF in June and add injects for one last IUI in the meantime
IUI #5 started letrozole and bravelle but canceled after HSG led to new diagnosis
May 21, 2014: third HSG, tubes blocked, one at the beginning, one hydrosalpinx??
IVF #1 August 8, 2014 - 3dt of 2 embryos, BFN
September 17, 2014 - 4th HSG, the right tube is very patent (open!!) dye went straight through this time. Weird!
October 2, 2014 - started metformin treatment
November 14, 2014 - blood work, brought A1C down from 5.8 to 5.5
November 26, 2014 - RE finally back from vaca and reviewed my chart, no more IVFs for rest of calendar year
December 1, 2014 - Right after Thanksgiving, I called a new clinic and got in right away! Plan for IVF
December 17, 2014 - ER! 29 retrieved (!!), 16 mature, all 16 fertilized (ICSI)
IVF #2 December 20, 2014 - 3dt of 3 embryos, BFN
We are done with treatment unsuccessfully.