Intro..please I need some guidance

Campow83 · February 2014

Hi ladies. I was back here in November after my first loss. I passed naturally with the doctors saying bad luck. I was told to wait one cycle and we can try again. Got my cycle 5 weeks later and then found out we were pregnant in jan.
Here's where my roller coaster begins. Friday my ultrasound showed a HR of 102 measuring behind by 4 days @ 6.1 weeks. Over this week I had cramps and some brown spotting which stopped now but they were able to get me in yesterday for my paranoia . Doc said no heartbeat. He sent us to ER since his hospital doesn't do DNC's. WELL in the ER they found a HR of 106!!!!! We were stunned. Baby is now measuring a week behind. 106 is low, I should be in my 7th week. There was also a little blood in the uterus.So I'm just lost, I feel like I'm waiting for the inevitable. Any ladies relate or have any words.? My hope is but a twinkle. They are seeing me again today. My heart hurts.

kboydbowman · February 2014

Any chance the 106 was yours and not the baby's? That would be a bit high for a resting heartrate, but given your likely anxiety levels, not out of the question. Obviously I hope things are okay, but I think preparing yourself for the likelihood of a loss is probably smart.

Maxsmommy123112 · February 2014

Unfortunately my OB told me she heard a heartbeat and even gave me a number and said everything was fine. My hunch was that it wasn't. I got a second opinion a few days later and the baby had past 2 weeks prior so there was no heartbeat and my OB was mistaken. I also had a miscarriage just prior to this one in September.

I'm praying they were right and baby is fine. Please keep us updated. And stay cautiously optimistic. Worrying will only make it worse. T&Ps are with you!!

mrssl3813 · February 2014

I agree this could have been yours and not baby's. I hope I am wrong, I am sorry you have to go through so much waiting and wondering. T&P are with you.

Campow83 · February 2014

Thanks ladies. I will know for sure in Monday when I go back. It sucks to be in limbo but all I can do is have faith!!

Maxsmommy123112 · February 2014

Limbo is THE WORST! Keep us updated. FX

Ihope · February 2014

Thoughts and prayers

SRose1005 · February 2014

You are in my prayers!!! Good luck!!

Campow83 · February 2014

We'll ladies, we finally got closure today! Heartbeat is officially gone and no growth since last Wednesday. I have my D&C scheduled for Thursday and I'm terrified but ready to find some peace in knowing it's done. Thank you so much for all you thoughts and prayers

Maxsmommy123112 · February 2014

I'm so so so sad to read that update. I'm sorry for your loss and the days to come ahead. I know nothing is comforting right now but I am glad you have answers, though they aren't what you'd hoped. With both my Miscarriages i remember just wanting to know.

Wishing you a quick and painless D&C. I just had my first one and it wasn't so bad, physically speaking of course.