May 2014 Moms

~PGAL Check-In~

Happy Wednesday, ladies! This is a weekly check-in for all May Mamas who have previously experienced a miscarriage, stillbirth, or loss of a child at any age. Please post your updates below!

How many weeks?

How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally)

Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week?

What else is going on? Apples and Onions?

GTKY (remix) This week I'm including a XP from PGAL regarding labor buddies. I know our main BMB doesn't seem interested in this, but it's something a lot of us PGALers would like to do. I know most of you are active there as well and have already responded, but if you're not and would still like to participate, please mention it in your responses or you can PM @J&J09 who has graciously volunteered to set this up for us. Here is her original post: 

"If you would like to participate, please respond below with your TB name and due date!  Also if you have any special requests, feel free to mention them below and I will do my best to make it happen.  Also, if you have a labor buddy in mind, please feel free to let me know below or in a pm!  I can't believe we are at this point!"
BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13
7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions
1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14
Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 
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  • How many weeks? 28 weeks, 4 days

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) See the long version in my post below, but I'm really pretty beat up in both departments. I'm just relieved that everything is ok, and already today I feel a lot better. 

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? Impromptu appointment and ultrasound yesterday! Ugh. Baby girl looks great though, so that makes me happy. Next regular appointment is the 21st. I'm on the "every 2 week" plan now!

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? My big ol' fat onion has to be my trip to L&D yesterday. Apple: DH finally got the nursery all cleared and ready for painting. I have a feeling that this week's little scare will kick start his motivation to get stuff done. 

    GTKY: I already responded over in PGAL, but yes, I want a labor buddy! Lunabug924, due May 3rd!
    BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
    BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13
    7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions
    1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14
    Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 
    KAYLIE MARIE IS HERE! BORN 5/4/14

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  • How many weeks? 25 weeks today.

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) Feeling good on both fronts.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? Nothing! But that's kind of nice. :)

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? STUPID WINTER WEATHER is what's going on. I live in GA and we are getting hit with a snow/ice storm and it's shutting down life. I am really annoyed.

    GTKY: I already responded on PGAL as well, and I do want a labor buddy. Due May 28th.
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • How many weeks? 26w4d

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) I'm still getting a lot of heartburn and nausea at night.  If I eat too much I basically can't sleep.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? I had my 26 week appointment yesterday and it didn't go well.  My fundal height is measuring small so my doc is sending me for an ultrasound next Wednesday.  I was so relaxed for the last few weeks and of course now I'm back to my worrywart status.  I can't help but wonder if the baby is small is it my fault? Am I not eating enough? Exercising too much? ugh of course the first thought is to blame myself.  So last night I of course pigged out because now I think I'm not getting enough calories and of course I had the worst heartburn and had the worst sleep basically making myself not throw up the entire night.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?  Well besides the bad appointment I will say that it is nice that my baby is very active.  I feel him/her moving around constantly and at my appointment the baby's heart rate was strong so I have that.

    GTKY (remix) This week I'm including a XP from PGAL regarding labor buddies. I know our main BMB doesn't seem interested in this, but it's something a lot of us PGALers would like to do. I know most of you are active there as well and have already responded, but if you're not and would still like to participate, please mention it in your responses or you can PM @J&J09 who has graciously volunteered to set this up for us. Here is her original post: 

    That's a great idea but I'm pretty sure I already have a labour buddy.....@kramja01 you're still my girl right?
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    BFP #1 11/07/12   M/C 12/11/12
    BFP #2 2/23/13    M/C 03/6/13
                       BFP #3 9/2/13  EDD 05/17/14                     
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  • How many weeks? 26 weeks

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) Still feeling ok. I'm starting to get some hip pain at night from sleeping on my left side and have to flip to my right for a bit.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? Heading to my MW appointment shortly.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?
    Apples: we started to get the nursery cleaned out last weekend and sold our elliptical. I'm also pretty sure I've got my NB CD stash all ready.
    Onions: I wish I had more energy to do more. I feel lazy and unmotivated to do anything.

    GTKY (remix) This week I'm including a XP from PGAL regarding labor buddies. I know our main BMB doesn't seem interested in this, but it's something a lot of us PGALers would like to do. I know most of you are active there as well and have already responded, but if you're not and would still like to participate, please mention it in your responses or you can PM @J&J09 who has graciously volunteered to set this up for us. Here is her original post: I'm not on PGAL so I'm going to pass.
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    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed baby boy May 25, 2014
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  • How many weeks? 28 weeks tomorrow!

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) I am so happy to finally be in Third Tri!  I know that nothing is ever a guarantee, but I feel like I can let out a huge sigh of relief.  It's also nice to feel baby girl kicking around in there.  She is most active at the end of the day, so I always look forward to that.  I feel like this pregnancy is flying by!

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? Had my 28 week appt. yesterday and my GTT.  It looks like I passed (based on my numbers online), so I'm waiting to celebrate until my OB's office confirms.  I'm thrilled not to have to do the 3 hour though!  Next appt is in 3 weeks and then an U/S to check LO's growth (I have an SUA).  So far, we're measuring right on track though!

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? I feel like I've taken a few weeks' hiatus from all things baby-related.  Haven't touched the nursery in weeks!  I've decided I'm going to get on that this weekend.  DH also wants to get an elective u/s this week to see what LO looks like, so we may go and do that as well!

    GTKY (remix) I'm honestly not as active on PGAL as I am here, but I would definitely like a labor buddy!  Due May 8th if anyone is looking for one.
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  • Glad you're doing better, @LunaBug924 ! And thanks for running the check-in :)

    How many weeks? 25 weeks/ cauliflower

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) Physically, body sore and tired. Emotionally, ok. I finally was feeling really good about this pregnancy and then got a reminder that late loss can still happen. Since then, I've been anxious about every lack of kicking.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? Had an OB appt this morning which went well, and I'm glad my OB didn't say anything about my weight gain. Heartbeat sounded wonderful and little lady was doing some wiggles. 3 weeks until glucose testing and TDAP vaccine.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? Everything has been on a pretty even keel lately.

    GTKY: Responded on PGAL, too, but YES!  LV2011 due May 26th :)

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  • How many weeks?
    28w 1d

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally)
    Physically- lots of cramping and pain down low for the last week. Hips are killing me. EXHAUSTED even though I don't really do anything all day
    Emotionally- stressed/sad DH said work was sending him out of state for last week of march first week of April now he may be leaving for two weeks on Sunday! That would mean he would miss my bday next fri and more importantly our shower next sat! Hopefully he won't go now but hopefully not so late in the preg either

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week?
    Appt tomorrow. Gonna have to get my rhogam shot :(

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?
    Apples-kinda hard this week. Shit is just going wrong right now. Baby is squirming a lot and going to do trade ins at bru tomorrow and get our monitor since it is on sale right now. That's about it.
    Onions- puppy is driving me insane. She has learned how to climb out of her play pen. My dog is sick but vet can't tell me what's wrong but had no problem charging me $100 to tell me effing nothing! Really hoping DH doesn't leave this weekend we made the shower co-ed just so he wouldn't be the only guy so if he's not there the other guys will be uncomfy. We were planning on making our garden over the next 2 weekends. I'm making DH take me to chuckecheese for my 26th bday so all in all I really don't want him out of state the next 2 weeks.
  • @LunaBug924 thanks for keeping up with the check-in after the long day you had. get lots of rest!

    How many weeks? 27w6d -is it weird that sometimes I have to check one of the pregnancy apps on my phone to remember?

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) my body is achy and seems to run out of steam about 30 minutes before DD's bedtime. I finally ordered a support belt and home PN yoga DVD. I'm hoping these help me through the next 13 weeks. emotionally I've been feeling good PGALwise, but noticed that I'm a little grouchy and hormonal overreacting.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? 
    have a MW appointment Friday. will review my GTT results (I checked online and I failed by 4 points). MW already suggested before test that I skip the 3 hour and just monitor, so I'm hoping to get an order for a new glucometer and testing supplies. I think I'll feel a lot more in control and it will hold me more accountable with the GD diet.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?
    apples: DD has been hilarious this week. She's going through a naked phase and was carrying her baby doll around in her babyErgo with no clothes on. She also keeps breaking out some cute sayings we've never heard. This week's were "See you later alligator" and "I told you so mommy"

    onions: stupid snow storm looming. I'm over winter weather. also I've been having some really uncomfortable pains/contractions at night. they have me a little freaked out about my efforts to go med-free. need to spruce up my preparation efforts!

    GTKY: already responded on PGAL. yes I'm in EDD 05/18

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  • Hi @Lunabug924, so glad you're back home and baby is doing well after your scare.
     
    How many weeks?  27!!

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally)  Feeling pretty good physically.  Emotionally I could be better.  I've been really overwhelmed with DS at home and also sad that this is the month Ava was due.  I should be planning her first birthday party.  It's so bittersweet being pregnant with our Rainbow.  I can't wait for him, but I'm still so sad for my loss.
     
    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week?No appointments this week.  Got to see baby boy last week and he's getting so big...2 lbs already! 

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?Apples:Passed my GTT, yay!  And confirmed my c-section for May 5th at 1:30pm.  I'll be shocked if this little guy doesn't try and come on his own sooner.Onions:This horrible winter is keeping me down, not looking forward to tonight/tomorrow's snow storm. 

    GTKY:  I responded on PgAL that I would like to participate, how does that work though for people that have a scheduled c-section?  If all goes as planned it will be pretty uneventful updates.  Like, "she's going in, he's out, all is good".  Hopefully.  I would be glad to report for someone else though.  Oh, and as mentioned...eviction date for me is 5/5. 
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    BFP#2 - 6/18/12 EDD 2/23/13, sweet baby girl born sleeping on 10/4/12 at 19 weeks, 3 days.

    BFP #3 - 1/18/13 EDD 10/1/13, natural mc on 2/2/13 at 5 weeks, 4 days.

    BFP #4 - 8/29/13 EDD 5/12/14, our sweet rainbow, DS2 born 4/29/14 via c-section

  • How many weeks? 26 weeks, 3 days.  Almost to the third tri!

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) I had a rough day yesterday.  I didn't feel the baby kick for a really long time and started to panic.  I full on hoovered through some M&Ms while my students were reading to try and wake him up.   It worked and he's been fairly active since, but it freaked me out.  Physically, I feel sleepy.  DH has been grinding his teeth and it has been keeping me up at night.  I am glad he is on a 24 hour shift today so I can get some sleep.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? Third tri starts Sunday and I have my GTT, TDAP and check up on Tuesday.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? 
    Apples- I have a three day weekend this week and I have my good friend's bridal shower on Sunday.

    Onions- I am having a hard time with my body. I worked really hard to lose a significant amount of weight three years ago and I now weigh what I did when I was at my heaviest.  It's hard to see those numbers again, even though I know it is for a good reason.  I feel like I look horrible and I am really worried about how I will look at this wedding I am in next month.  I just feel blah.

    GTKY (remix) This week I'm including a XP from PGAL regarding labor buddies. I am interested and commented on the PGAL board.
  • @Lunabug924- I am glad you are okay!


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    edited February 2014
    @lunabug924 - I'm glad you're feeling better.  How scary though.
    @Rocknroll64 - I'm sorry your appointment gave you reason to worry.  I hope the ultrasound sets your mind at ease.
    @katypatrick - I hope your dog feels better soon!
    @Meli25 - I'm sorry that you're missing your Ava even more this month.

    I hope all the ladies are doing well.

    How many weeks?  26 (and @chknma, I keep forgetting too)

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally)    I've been having some anxiety.   The baby was moving like crazy on Saturday night.  My husband and I were both marveling about how strong he was.   Since then, the movement hasn't been as frequent or as strong.  I've read this is normal, so I'm resisting calling the doctor, but it still worries me.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week?  Nothing until next week.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?   Onions - We said goodbye to my sweet dog this weekend.  We shared 13 wonderful years together.  It is so hard.   Apples - Since last week's check-in: we've selected paint colors for the nursery, the crib has arrived, we started our birthing class, we selected a doula, we started baby prep training for our remaining dog and we started investigating the nanny/day care options.

    GTKY (remix)   I don't care to participate.  I'll be watching for updates from all the May moms though!

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    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
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  • ladywolf1313ladywolf1313 member
    edited February 2014
    How many weeks? 25 weeks

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) Physically I am very tired like I can't get enough rest. Emotionally I stay in a constant state of confusion.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? I have an ultrasound appointment today to see how lil Man is growing. Which happens to be tomorrow which also happens to be my birthday. I think that's the best gift I can get is seeing him wiggle around on the screen.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? Apples: We finally decided on the nursey theme and I have even started helping my friend plan the baby shower. Onions: My job is stressing me out big time cause I work in a factory and my job is very physical but if I were to be put on restrictions they would put me on leave without pay. So I have to hang in there til closer to May. That's if they don't try and write me up again for something else.

    GTKY (remix) This week I'm including a XP from PGAL regarding labor buddies. I would love this because of all the fears labor is the biggest one I have. Due May 24th.
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  • How many weeks?  25w3d

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally)  Physically, still nauseous.  Emotionally, was freaked out the past few days but just got back from urgent OB appt so feeling OK right now...

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week?  I usually feel baby kicking like crazy, day and night, for the past 5 weeks at least.  The past few days s/he has been pretty quiet.  I feel a little movement every now and then, but it's been less frequent and definitely gentler.  That had me Googling, but probably wouldn't been enough to put me into a tizzy.  However, over the past couple days I noticed my undies were really wet, moreso than just on the liner I usually wear to catch lovely pregnancy discharge.  It seemed clear and didn't smell like urine, so yesterday I called my OB to see what to do.  She said she wouldn't worry unless it happened 2-3 more times.  Well, today at work, a few times when I stood up or sat down, even after emptying my bladder, I felt the leaking, so sort of freaked.  I called my OB's office @ 4:15pm and they had me come right in, thank goodness.  My OB checked internally to ensure my water didn't break (which she said it didn't), then had me on the fetal monitor for 20 minutes (good heart beat) and then a quick sono just to ensure everything looked ok.  The sono tech said I had "plenty of water in there", so luckily it was a false alarm.  The OB said it wasn't amniotic fluid OR urine; just extra discharge.  Phew.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions?  So sick of this darn cold and snowy winter -- ready to move to Hawaii!!!!  In the good news front, I *almost* have my registry sorted out.  Well, I'm getting there... 
  • Mikki62Mikki62 member
    edited February 2014
    How many weeks? 25

    How are you feeling? (Physically and emotionally) Good, starting to feel more comfortable about really believing he is going to make it. I lost my last baby at 16 weeks so I'm pretty far past that and he looked great at the a/s so I know he doesn't have the same problems.

    Any appointments, ultrasounds, or milestones this week? I had a normal monthly appointment yesterday and everything was fine.

    What else is going on? Apples and Onions? Nothing, just busy with tax season.
     
    I would like a labor buddy as well. I'm not on PGAL so don't have one there. My name is Mikki62 and I'm due May 27.

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