Hi Ladies...I'm really feeling down and not very hopeful. RE says that
average IVF for women with poor egg quality due to age is 5-6 times
before you take a baby home. He then said its a 50/50 chance. I am 38
and moving forward with IVF #2 with "freeze all" cycle. Would love to
hear success stories as I am feeling very discouraged tonight. xoxoxo
Re: Success with poor egg quality..anyone?
IF, 5 losses, 1 son, 1 on the way.
We got pregnant
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
I think your dr is giving you the stats for your age and for ivf, not necessarily for your specific dx. Don't let it get to you too bad!
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
Actual age matters less than how your body/egg reserve/hormones are aging. The hormone levels that 4legsRbest called out are important factors in determining how your body's age is looking. If your RE hasn't told you the results of these tests, I'd be cautious about proceeding with any kind of plan until you understand how all these hormones and numbers affect your potential.
For my own "success" story:
I am also (newly) 38. I have been pregnant at 34, 35, 36, and 37 - but suffered 4 losses. This will be our 1st take home baby.
In my case I have a ton of eggs and the right hormone balance, but the eggs are prone to chromosomal disruptions, which could be due to my age, but could be due to other factors, regardless, it is the most common cause of miscarriages.
Equally important is the male piece of the puzzle. Poor sperm can contribute greatly to lack of success. Male factor infertility can be a knot that take a long time to unravel. We've seen this several times on the IF, IFV and PAIF boards. Simply having a great count or great numbers is often not enough, especially if there is a female age factor. In our case it took 3 years to find out that we had male issues as well.
Our success came through doing chromosomal testing on our embryos to assure that we were only dealing with chromosomally normal embryos before transferring them back in. This isn't a common need, but due to our losses, it was a great road for us to take.
TTC #1 since 1/10
DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues
Our lil' lost sparks:
5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013
Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal
Moving on to IVF.
IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy
Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14
After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
We are so in love with her.
"I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."
Everybody is welcome!!!
My RE was equally surprised because all testing came back great! He was not worried about anything at all. I have a good number of eggs, my husband's sperm is more than 70 million which is great- we also opted for PDG because of age and to increase our chances of carrying a healthy baby to term. Out of 9 eggs retrieved, 7 fertilized, then we had to do a freeze all because I got premature luteinization (progestrone). We scheduled the followup for an FET and when we got there RE told us 5 out of 7 embies arrested on day 4, and the two remaining ones were trisomy21 and the other had chromosomal abnormalities, even though they were blastocysts. This totally crushed me.
I know this is crazy but DH cracked me up the other day when he said this could just have been a "bad batch!" I would appreciate any advice and thank you for sharing your story
My RE is adjusting our meds this cycle to get more eggs and increase the number of chances... Does this sound doable?
Me: 42. DH: 46.
1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.
2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.
3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.
4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.
5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.
Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN. After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.
August 16, 2013: BFP our first month of "not trying!" Still in shock. Beta #1 (14dpo): 183. Beta #2 (17dpo): 611. Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm!
Ultrasound 9/13/13: 8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
Baby is due 4/26/14
4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN
Possibly. Clearly I'm no doctor.
More eggs and PGD willl likely get you the best chance for a successful pregnancy. PGD will tell you a lot. But having 7 embryos (even if they arrested) is a strong number, especially for 9 retrieved so I wouldn't try to change too much about your protocol. In my opinion that's a decent cycle, even if the results weren't what you hoped.
If you do another cycle you may find a normal in the bunch - there are some % of normal predictions based on age out in the world, but it's nothing concrete and that doesn't mean you couldn't have all normals or no normals.
If you do another cycle and find a normal, you could transfer it now and hopefully have a successful pregnancy.
But, depending on your age, your desire, $$, and the size of family you want, you could do a couple cycles and try to bank any PGD normals and then do a transfer. Because you may not find normals if you wanted to go back and try for a sibling.
In our case, with our loss history, we won't ever be trying on our own to get pregnant again, we'll only use our frozen normals. We'd rather avoid a miscarriage - but that decision is personal and up to the individual couple.
I hope that helps!
TTC #1 since 1/10
DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues
Our lil' lost sparks:
5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013
Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal
Moving on to IVF.
IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy
Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14
After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
We are so in love with her.
"I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."
Everybody is welcome!!!
Initially when we went to the RE, we were classified as unexplained. My FSH was within normal range (under10, lower is better with this) and while my AMH was slightly low (that hormone the bigger numbers are better), I had still had a few recent losses. My RE really felt that with medication and IUI, I would have a successful pregnancy in no time. But each time it didn't work, it was really hard. I responded okay to clomid the first time, but then my response lessened and eventually (my 4th round) I failed to ovulate at all. I had never had problems not ovulating! That was when we had to induce my cycle with provera and then retest my numbers. On retesting we found that while my AMH had stayed the same, my FSH had risen and I was no longer below 10. The high FSH combined with the failed clomid response, and failed IUIs led to the diagnosis of DOR.
When I was diagnosed I was told that IVF was the only option. There was also talk of donor eggs if I wasn't successful at producing enough quality eggs. This was terrifying and I was devastated. I cried everyday and then we got the surprise BFP.
I wish I had a crystal ball for you and that I tell you that it will all be okay. I know that everyone's path to parenthood is different. There are women on here who used IUI, IVF, donor eggs, donor sperm, surrogacy, embryo adoption and more. It is amazing what can now be done. But, however you get there, it will be worth it in the end.
4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN
I have poor egg quality. I produced a good number of eggs in each of my two ivf's, but in ivf #1 I ended up with 5 embryos out of 15 eggs and none made it by day 5 due to bad quality and I got cancelled. IVF #2 I had 16 eggs, 15 fertilized and by day 5 we had 2 embryos that made it to early blast stage and I am now 16 weeks pregnant with one of those two embryos. The second embryo was transferred as well, but didn't implant. I feel so incredibly blessed that this one little guy managed to find my one good egg out of 31 eggs!
Good luck with IVF #2!
**Siggy/Ticker Warning**
TTC #1 since May 2012
May 2013: First R.E. appointment
DH: SA is good
May 2013: CD3 Blood work-normal
June 2013: Hsg-Right tube blocked
July 26, 2013: Starting Follistim for IVF #1
August 2013: IVF #1 Cancelled- Abnormal embryos
October/November 2013: IVF #2 w/ICSI
November 8, 2013: Transferred two early blasts (no frosties)
November 18, 2013: First EVER BFP!
Beta#1: 91 Beta#2: 288
1st U/S- 5w2d Saw yolk sac!
3rd U/S- 7w4d HB of 157bpm!
TEAM BLUE!
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I was in the latter camp and, though it's not where anyone wants to be initially, I can't imagine bring more excited about a pregnancy than I am with this one even though I used someone else's egg. So even my former worst nightmare is something I can accept and appreciate in the end. You'll find a way.