Are you a snoop-a-loop

WasNotWas · February 2014

lioness13 · February 2014

LOL at "snoop-a-loop"!

needanustart · February 2014

90% of the time I don't and don't bother and the only time I really look is if we're in the car and he asks me to do something like change the music or check a text while he's driving. Mostly because it's right in front of me for a few seconds. He does the same thing to me as he'll just glance at my phone if he sees a message come in and be like, "hey you told your sister about xxxx?" If he can figure out he's being talked about behind his back. I have zero real trust issues though and I think if I felt he need to snoop it wod be a sign of something much deeper. Trust and privacy is really important in a relationship to both of us.

BC&LM · February 2014

I do sometimes, but I almost always tell him I looked. It never has anything to do with a rough patch; I am just nosy. He never remembers to show me pics my SIL sent or stuff like that, so I will look at his texts to see them, etc. I would let him do the same (he knows most of my passwords), but he doesn't seem to have any interest because he is not nosy like me.

dmlk413 · February 2014

I look at DH's facebook because there is always some crazy sh*t on there but I typically don't read his messages. I do sometimes peek at his texts if one comes in and he's not in the room. I used to know his passwords back when they were his first name but he has since changed them.

lioness13 · February 2014

I'm super nosy but I never check. I think its because my DH has always made it clear that checking his phone or email would be going to far. I think I know his passwords because he has had me sign in for him. Thankfully I have never had a reason not to trust him.

Monkeybutt80 · February 2014

I am not sure how to vote here.

I know all his passwords and he knows all my passwords. We will freely go into each other's emails and phones if we need something but never for snooping. For example, if he needs an email confirmation for something I ordered, he will go into my email without asking me first, and I don't have a problem with that, and vise versa.

That's not to say that we had our issue when we were dating and had bouts of trust issues here and there. But we've been married for 8 years this March and have been together on and off for 12 years; if we can't trust each other at this point, we've wasted a lot of time.

Murphie82 · February 2014

I was a snoop with a past boyfriend because he was lying to me and doing all sorts of stuff he shouldn't have. I should have broken up with him the moment I knew something weird was going on, but if I had, I never would have met my husband.

With my husband, I don't have any concerns and am far too tired to spend my time snooping.

ETA: words

WasNotWas · February 2014

I voted that I do if it's already open. His friends send a lot of group text and he usually asks me for help sending something witty back

I've never found anything that required more snooping and the only time I ever saw a suspicious text it was 100% my imagination

SilverEF · February 2014

I wrote no never. I know some of DHs passwords but never found reason to check anything. He doesn't really text. He doesn't even really do anything on Facebook.

CoffeeBeanFiend91 · February 2014

I voted for rough patch but it's whenever he is acting shady. Some serious shit went down early in our relationship, nothing while married, but still.

BunnyLove416 · February 2014

Nope, no snooping here. I do sometimes ask who he's talking to or what he's talking about but that's purely because I'm nosy, nothing to do with jealousy or suspicion. Honestly I'd be pissed if he snooped on me so I'd feel guilty if I did it to him.

sparklemotion86 · February 2014

We know each other's passwords, but I don't snoop. I did snoop a few times when we were dating and we had a bit of a rough patch.

The last time I snooped, was about 5 years ago. He was being a little distant and we had had some issues the year before. I snooped his FB messages and saw that he was messaging my BFF. I was suspicious since she lived in a different city and she's super attractive and smart. Turns out that he was asking her advice on some things about me because he wanted to propose to me. I felt like a complete ass.

I've never snooped again because I've never had a reason to. If I suspected something, I would ask him first, then snoop, if I felt that he was lying.

Mufflerlove · February 2014

I look at his phone all the time but not in a sneaky way. I never have mine with me when were together so I text off of his. I also find his facebook more interesting. He knows some crazy people.

No longer the best · February 2014

I voted no. Maybe I have a boring husband or we have a trusting marriage (or both?) but I've never felt the need or urge. At all. That's in 10 1/2 years.

Also on the whole boring husband thing he doesn't own a cellphone (crazy right?) So there is that.

FunkyPhoenix · February 2014

I'm a total snoop a loop but only if its available to me and I'll do it right in front of DH. However, it used to be way worse and for good reason. Early in our relationship, back in the MySpace days, he had an account and I didn't. We were living together at the time and I was curious what the big deal was so when he was on it one day I had him show me his page. I asked him to open his mail and there was a MSG from a girl that was explicit and sexual in nature. He went back and forth on the MSG with her and even went so far as mention that I wasnt home. It killed me. I was furious and immediately left. I've never been so hurt, even to this day it still hurts my feelings so much. Here I was living with him thinking he was "the one" and he was doing that behind my back. Obviously I was dumping his ass and came to get my stuff one day a few days later and he broke down crying begging me to stay. He swore that it never went beyond messaging and at the end of it I guess I believed him. Lets just say it took a long time to recover from that... Which maybe is why the current lying situation is such a big deal. I've been hurt by this guy from the beginning. Still love him. Still see the good in him. Maybe I have issues. I don't know. Lol.

ETA: the girl was a girl he introduced me to in a social setting previously and was dating one of his friends. Apparently she had "dated" a few of them.

Cricket81 · February 2014

I don't snoop. The only thing I do (which he knows) is check his phone if he gets a text while he's asleep and I am awake. I do that just to make sure it isn't something that needs to be dealt with while he's still snoozing away. For example, my mil will often text on the weekend to see if we want to go out for breakfast and I feel bad just leaving her hanging while DH sleeps until 11:00.

flerlgirl · February 2014

I have access to everything but DH is seriously the least sneaky person on the planet. We don't care if the other one checks our FB/email/Twitter/eHarmony account.

flerlgirl · February 2014

JustPlaneLoved said:

I just voted lurker because none of those really fit me.. Yes, I have all the passwords. No, I don't snoop, but if he has his e-mail or phone open, I'll look to see what he's talking about if something catches my eye. He forgets to tell me important things going on with his family sometimes that I happen to see in there, so maybe I should...

I should have just dittoed this.

KellenHi21 · February 2014

SilverEF said:
I wrote no never. I know some of DHs passwords but never found reason to check anything. He doesn't really text. He doesn't even really do anything on Facebook.

+1 exactly

phishgirl29 · February 2014

No lurking here. I have a hard enough time trying to hide my bumping from him to be snooping on his devices

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