DS was found to have had a severe impact of wax in his ears, which was found around the time of when the evals began. His wax had been impacted so badly, his eardrum was responding as if there was fluid present.
We aren't sure how it was there for either, DS didn't tell me and it was found when he had a cold in Nov*. We got the wax removed yesterday with an ENT, and we also have a pre & post wax removal audiology report.
Therefore we're considering holding off on a DX eval altogether and simply be aggressive with his OT & ST therapies - make addendum to goals where necessary, prep him for K. Now if in kindie we need to eval, we will do so...but he needs some solid time (6mo) to catch up we think.
*to answer any questions why it took so long to remove, first the pedi took a wait and see approach saying the wax will fall out with debrox - it didn't. ..then we went to an ENT who also took a wait &see approach and said no debrox. Then another pedi tried to remove the wax but it was so impacted she sent us to an ENT..this time we went to mine. He ordered all the audiology reports and removed the wax 100%
Re: Considering stopping Evaluations.
Auntie, speech needs attention without a doubt. I'm not sure how much time is needed though for him to catch up with his hearing improved.
Fred, this is a full workup to check for ADHD, ASD, IQ, and any LDs.
What are we looking at, if we wait 3-6mo though school wise? I know we will be at the K mark then.
Also I spoke to Fdlrs. They said to open a case now, this way by the time he enters K, its smoother for him. With the medical DX paperwork, we may bypass the educational eval process (or not, depends on tests conducted). She said if we wait until K, testing&meetings won't start for 60 days in.
DS 09/2008
When he came home from work yesterday he heard about what happened. He then asked, "Are you using the hearing excuse as a ticket out of the evaluation? Are you scared?". I said, deflated, "Yeah..."
He explained that while my fears were very valid, its important to not stop the evaluations for the sake of DS...irregardless of the outcome. He said to go one step at a time, to focus on the DR's eval...and we will go from there.
I needed has feedback, to reassure me that we're on DS's team and I'm not walking this scary journey alone.