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The business of being born...

Has anyone watched this? Thoughts?

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    Definitely one sided with everything. They make doctors sound like they don't care about their patients. It was interesting, but very biased. Did not sway me into natural birth. I respect those that do, but it is not for me. I will take full advantage of medical advances with epidurals etc. 
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    So I ended up watching it this afternoon. I thought the information was great (most of it I was already aware of). I think it was biased in the sense that my opinion of the medical system is that it is broken BUT that I'd rather see the system be fixed than removing deliveries from a hospital setting and going into a home setting. I'd rather see the comforts of a midwife and your own home and the "hands off" unless medically necessary set up happen in hospitals. Probably a pipe dream but oh well....I'd say I was glad I watched it.
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    I watched it and it just reaffirmed I wanted to give birth at the hospital. At home births freak me out.
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    I rally enjoyed this movie. We are taught that doctors are to be obeyed and listened to and I think we often forget that they have their own agenda. The bottom line is that you are in charge of your own medical decisions. Period. No one should feel forced by a doctor to make medical decisions they aren't comfortable with. There are a lot of women out there who put 10x more thought into their crib bedding than their labor and delivery. And that's fine if that's what they're comfortable with. But I liked that it made me really think about what I was comfortable with, gave me new knowledge and facts I would certainly not receive on a brochure at my doctors office, and made me more aware of my options.
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    If you go into it realizing that it's a one-sided and skewed production, then I think it's great to watch.  I just feel bad for women that watch it and end up being completely heartbroken when their plans for an unmedicated birth have to change.  
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    Anecdotally, I have seen the exact cycle of induction, pitocin, epidural, more pitocin, fetal distress, c-section that they describe for multiple friends (more than half actually). I also think the home birth lady needing a hospital transfer and c/s adequately portrays their stance that intervention is sometimes necessary, just not interventions before there is a problem since the interventions sometimes cause their own problems.
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    I liked the first one, but found the series that followed very heavy handed.
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    pdilly2b said:

    Anecdotally, I have seen the exact cycle of induction, pitocin, epidural, more pitocin, fetal distress, c-section that they describe for multiple friends (more than half actually).

    I've seen this with my friends, as well. I'm one of the last of my friends to have a baby, so I've heard a lot of horror stories. It's one of the main reasons I'm going to *try* to go as natural as possible.
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    Anecdotally, my friends who went natural had a really rough time (and two ended in a c-section) and my friends who had epidurals had pretty awesome, smooth labors from then onward.

    Which is to say, natural or not, it could go either way. 
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    mostly i went in knowing it was biased and also knowing I have no choice- I am high risk and have to be in a hospital but I dont want pain meds and I'd like to avoid as many interventions as possible despite having a likely induction. the movie did fully convince me I could use a doula to help achieve these goals given my situation.
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    I think you have to remember that all information is biased.  It doesn't matter what the source is, people interpret facts and then report that information.  This is why it's always important to find at least 3 different sources for information and at least one source that is the opposite.  That way you've exposed yourself to various types of information.  Then it's up to you to disseminate the pertinent information and make your own opinion.
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    I felt it was very biased...YES the medical field is too medical, but by the same token, I feel that a lot of alternative doctors are too anti-Western medicine. I went to a midwife and considered going natural - had plans to - but then I became diabetic during pregnancy and it was safer to induce me (due to placenta possibly breaking down, NOT big baby), so there went my plan!

    I do not feel I would or could love my baby any more if I had done it natural! I was stuck having a long induced labor and crappy Pitocin, but on the flip side, I am THANKFUL for that epidural. I felt that labor was something akin to torture...maybe it was the Pitocin or maybe labor is that bad no matter what. Natural is not something I would do unless forced.

    I liked the midwives better than the OB practice I started with, but to be honest, I am disappointed by both! I feel that very little attention was paid to my diet, only to chide me on my bad "numbers," and I also feel that my postpartum care has been pretty pathetic. I am still in pain 6 weeks postpartum and my midwife practice just cancelled my 6 week appointment so now I have to wait another week to find out why I'm still in so much pain.

    Anyway, that documentary is very one-sided and shows a lot about the medical system that was terrible years ago, not right now. I think instead of natural versus medical we should look for a way to integrate everything to give the best care possible.
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