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March 2014 Moms
kls33145
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Embarrassingly fought over food with DH....
kls33145
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Yeah....
I feel like a bitch.
DH hosted poker night last night. Among his crew of guys was my cousin....who brought over pulled pork made by his mother, my pretty much gourmet chef aunt. Was I aware last night of this delicious food last night??...course not. But that's not the issue.
There was a good amount left over. DH was leaving for work today and pulled out the whole crockpot of leftovers to bring to work for him and his coworkers...with all the fixings to go with it.
I told him I thought that we could keep the leftovers here and it would be fantastic to have for the week.
He fought back saying he's sick of sending out at work and blowing money on crappy food.
I told him to get a Tupperware container and just bring some.
He told me he has no time and now has to wait until 6:30 to eat again.
I feel bad but c'mon man....right??? Am I out of line here?
He told me I'm off today and can do whatever I want for lunch....which isn't technically true since I'm supposed to be on my couch, laying on my left side all weekend.
After he left, I had a mini emotional breakdown. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't take me into consideration. Then I felt stupid....bc this is all over a crockpot of pulledpork
And he pretty much does any and everything he can for me otherwise...
Buutttt....pulled pork! Food! Don't take the food!
What's wrong with me?!?
I feel like a bitch.
DH hosted poker night last night. Among his crew of guys was my cousin....who brought over pulled pork made by his mother, my pretty much gourmet chef aunt. Was I aware last night of this delicious food last night??...course not. But that's not the issue.
There was a good amount left over. DH was leaving for work today and pulled out the whole crockpot of leftovers to bring to work for him and his coworkers...with all the fixings to go with it.
I told him I thought that we could keep the leftovers here and it would be fantastic to have for the week.
He fought back saying he's sick of sending out at work and blowing money on crappy food.
I told him to get a Tupperware container and just bring some.
He told me he has no time and now has to wait until 6:30 to eat again.
I feel bad but c'mon man....right??? Am I out of line here?
He told me I'm off today and can do whatever I want for lunch....which isn't technically true since I'm supposed to be on my couch, laying on my left side all weekend.
After he left, I had a mini emotional breakdown. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't take me into consideration. Then I felt stupid....bc this is all over a crockpot of pulledpork
And he pretty much does any and everything he can for me otherwise...
Buutttt....pulled pork! Food! Don't take the food!
What's wrong with me?!?
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Re: Embarrassingly fought over food with DH....
@sebullows - you're exactly right. Today was his rare dick move and out poured all my emotions.
@bearsbearsbears - my "bedrest" is another thing that pisses me off! I saw a PA at my last appointment who told me not to do anything over the weekends; no cleaning, no laundry, no store runs, etc. However, I'm still good to go to work? 1st gr teacher, on my
feet all day during the week....but nothing on the weekends?
I take it with a grain of salt because to me, it's absurd that they want me off my feet for 2/7 days....
NOT justifying DH for his dick move today...but he sees me underplaying the whole off-my-feet thing.
He since has apologized and feels bad...but it was totally ridiculous this morning.
Thanks for your support, ladies. I feel better hearing outsiders thoughts on it. Don't mess with my pulled pork.
(Which by the way, was a scrumptious lunch!)