Pregnant after a Loss

Coming on over!! Intro

Hi!

After 6 months on the TTCAL board, I got my BFP on Thursday and blood work confirmed that I am pregnant again! It was pretty unexpected since I had my first appointment with a RE on Tuesday during my 2ww and we were planning for a medicated cycle with an IUI insemination, so I was more focused on that then the possibility I could already be pregnant. I am feeling both happy and terrified at the same time, but am trying to keep calm and tell myself it is out of my control. Getting the BFP was so different this time- it is all I have wanted for months but when I got it I just felt so nervous. Finally it is settling in and I am starting to feel happy. I had my MC pretty early on last time and hopefully once I get further along then I was some of this anxiety will subside. I can't help but feel like I will just be nervous throughout the whole first trimester.

Congratulations to all of yall! Any advice for how to deal with the fears and anxiety? Looking forward to getting to know all of you- my greatest wish is to be here for 9 months!!

I didn't feel like I was nearly active enough on the TTCAL board to post a BFP announcement there, so I just wanted to thank all of the TTCAL girls. There were so many days I felt so sad and down, and would go on the board and even if all I did was read posts I would feel better. Thank you for the support from such strong and wonderful ladies!


TTC #1 since Summer 2013
Diagnosed with PCOS- treatment:1000 mg Metformin
BFP #1 8/9/13 EDD 4/26/14 D&C 8/29/13
BFP #2 2/6/14 EDD 10/16/14- keeping our fingers crossed!

Re: Coming on over!! Intro

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    Congrats!!

    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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    ***** All ALers welcome *****

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  • Congrats and welcome :)



    Mummy to 2 wonderful children
    Noah (2011) & Lily (2014)
  • Welcome and congrats!!!

    A little bit about me...

    Married my awesome guy on 12/27/08

    DD Lucy Rae born on 11/16/2010

    Loss #1: November 29, 2012 at 8w1d

    Loss #2: June 9, 2013 at 13w (Amelia Grace)

    BFP #4: We are having a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peter Matthew was born on July 16, 2014!!! Welcome to our family!

     

     "If anyone asks me how many children I have, the answer is 4. Just two of them live in Heaven."

    *All are welcome in my posts*

     

     

     
     
  • Welcome and congrats!

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

  • Congrats and welcome!

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    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Anniversary

    BFP#1 9/25/10 DD born 6/9/11
    BFP#2 8/1/13 MC 8/31/13
    BFP#3 11/2/13 EDD 7/15/14 Stick baby Stick
    1st u/s 11/26/13 at 7w, measuring right on track and a heartbeat of 139bpm
    NT Scan 1/6/14 at 12w 6d, normal healthy squirmy baby measuring right on track heartbeat of 147bpm
    1st 2nd tri Scan 2/3/14 at 16w 6d, very healthy baby BOY!
    A/S 3/4/14 still a very healthy BOY, measuring right on track!
    DS born 7/9/14


    All always welcome

  • Yay! Welcome and congrats.

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers

    Our 3 Precious Angels That Left Us Too Soon
    BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13
    BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13

    Diagnosed with Hypothyroid 05/20/13 

    BFP #4 - 09/22/13 - DD#2 born 05/27/14

    All Alers Welcome!

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  • Congrats and welcome!!

    Julius Justin - 11/07/2002 - 10 lbs 22 in 
    Isabella Genavieve - 02/03/05 - 7 lbs 11 oz 22 in 
    Arianna Kaitlynn - 04/10/2013 - 4 lbs 15 oz 15 in

    BFP 08/10/13 
    TWINS!!!! 09/01/13
    Miscarriage at 12 weeks lost baby B 
    Arianna diagnosed with an Ompalocele at 13 weeks
    Arianna our Angel on 04/10/13 
    BFP 07/20/13
    Our Rainbow due 03/18/14 


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  • Welcome!!! This is my first pregnancy following a loss as well. I've passed my last milestone date but still have all the same fears. I think it's totally normal to feel after what we ladies have experienced. All I can do is take it day by day and try my hardest to distract myself. Good luck to you :)
  • Congrats and welcome to the other side!

    BFP #1: 3/23/13, EDD: 11/22/13, MC: 4/2/13
    Convinced it was a boy and missing him every day!
    BFP #2: 10/25/13, EDD: 7/3/14, Grow baby Grow! Anabelle Rose born 6/6/14 

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    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers Image and video hosting by TinyPic August Siggy Challenge: If Babies Could Talk
  • Congrats and welcome!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • Congrats and welcome!
    TTC Since July 2013
    BFP #1 8/8/13, EDD 4/16/14
    MMC discovered on 9/18/13 @ 10w, baby measuring 9w. D&C on 9/26/13



    BFP #2 12/7/13
    , EDD 8/12/13. It's a girl!
    Caroline Marie born 8/20/14. 8lbs 11oz, 21 inches and perfect!

  • Congrats and welcome. Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy!!
    Pregnancy Ticker
    BFP 4/17/13, MC began 5/2/13 @ 6 weeks
    EDD 12/27/13
    TTC since 2/2013
    BFP#2 9/23/13 EDD 6/8/14
     
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  • Thank you guys so much!! Hopefully I will get to stay here!
    @jalara48 congratulations to you too!! I'm so excited for you and happy to see you here also!

    TTC #1 since Summer 2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS- treatment:1000 mg Metformin
    BFP #1 8/9/13 EDD 4/26/14 D&C 8/29/13
    BFP #2 2/6/14 EDD 10/16/14- keeping our fingers crossed!
  • Congrats!
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • Congrats! No advise for getting through- it's a wild ride. I really identify with what you said about the AL BFP being all you wanted, but then you see it and there's a little, "oh crap" moment realizing what you're facing. FX it's for the long haul!
    *Married 10.10.08*
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    TTC #1 9.09 - BFP#1:2.18.10= missed m/c, D&C 4.16
    BFP#2:10.22.10=Avelin born 7.2.11
    TTC#2: 2.13 - BFP#3: 7.25.13=Kelsey born 3.31.14
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    Congrats!! Wishing you a H&H 9 months!
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


  • Congrats and welcome


                                                         
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