How many kids you have vs What people think

qsflame · February 2014

ProudMommy030614 · February 2014

Lol I have 2 ds plus LO makes 3 boys and I still get the " your trying for a girl right?" hell no this baby factory is closed!

qsflame · February 2014

It's okay ladies. I'm at number six... I'm obviously a freak

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kdel09 · February 2014

bearsbearsbears said:
We have a 2 year old girl and this LO is a boy...I'm so sick of everyone telling us that it's awesome that we won't need to have any more children.

We're probably done just because we're done, but this irritates the crap out of me.

This is driving me crazy too. I have 2 year old boy and a girl on the way. So many people have said how great that is so I don't need to have more. Maybe we want more! I would love for my son to have a brother and my girl a sister.

teachermommy9967 · February 2014

I have twin 2 yr old girls and everyone keeps saying they hope this one is a boy so DH has a little boy to teach how to play hockey and baseball. What he can't teach his daughters how to play sports??? Those comments just piss me right off

amdecker1016 · February 2014

People are already asking me if we are going to have another.
Really? Let me deliver the first one.

TradeMama · February 2014

I've never gotten any "birth control" comments... This is my 4th. I do get comments about them being all boys and the age differences.

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Andreabills · February 2014

amymheidecker said:
People are already asking me if we are going to have another.
Really? Let me deliver the first one.

I've had this question as well, and I always say that I'm not. I'm done having children. When they say "oh, you don't mean that, just wait!" That is what really bugs me! Yeah, okay, you know me so much better than I know myself, you're right and have completely changed my mind! Thank you! Then I roll my eyes and walk away. I haven't had that conversation more than once with anyone... :-D

bingbongsmama · February 2014

This is so true. We're having our 2nd girl and are done. People assume we need to try again for a boy. No thanks, 2 is plenty for me.

MayKay12 · February 2014

Yep! Have 1 girl and 1 boy and have been asked if we were actually trying to have another one.

clo1982 · February 2014

We have a girl and this one is a boy. I'm so tired of the 'now your family is perfect and you can be done' comments. We were done regardless and in no way would I have considered our family to be less than ideal if this lo had been another girl. It makes me so mad when we get those comments...a girl is not a consolation prize if you don't have a boy...and vice versa.

jennbaylor12 · February 2014

amymheidecker said:
People are already asking me if we are going to have another.
Really? Let me deliver the first one.

This. So irritating. Last time I was asked that I replied "Actually, no". They were all 'but, but' and again I just said "nope". Then they smiled and did the whole 'just wait, you'll see' bit and so I stared at them for a moment and then again said 'no'. Then it was their turn to stare while I just stood there looking at them. Mind your own business people or be prepared for whatever answer you get!

MA&CB · February 2014

We'll have 2 boys, and a bunch of people have asked about us trying for a third to get a girl. While I would love to have a girl, I don't want 3 kids, and there's no guarantee I wouldn't have 3 boys. We're fine with two happy healthy boys!

Aturl · February 2014

Everyone assumes my 1st but this is my 3rd

Zriseon3 · February 2014

This is my first and we aren't even thinking about another for at least 4 or 5 years. After the second (if we have one) we are done. I always wanted a girl and that's what we're having but I think DH is going to want to try for a boy eventually. My SIL had 3 boys. When she was pregnant with her third people would apologize because she wasn't having a girl. That really pissed her off. She wanted a girl but she wasn't upset about having another boy. But I am having the first girl in the family and she has bought my daughter so many clothes. I have only bought one outfit so far and I have a closet full.

twinlove314 · February 2014

I've lost count of how many people have said that I'd be done after I deliver since I'm having twins. It just blows my mind that people would say something like that...

jennybean80 · February 2014

When people find out we just had boy/girl twins we get a lot of 'oh great, million dollar family in one go! You won't need to have anymore!' Then I give them a look and say 'we also have a three-year-old son'. Does that mean I no longer have the 'million dollar family'… grrrrr.

ProudMommy030614 · February 2014

What I really dislike is when people ask what we're having and we say a boy they look disappointed because this is our 3rd. Fuck you people I wanted all boys but would have been happy with either.

bingbongsmama · February 2014

WisconsinCheese12 said:
We haven't had this one yet , and we have no idea if we want more....mil wants a boy apparently. I sort of hope we have 2 girls now.....lol. (I really don't care but if we have a more and it's a boy we will have 3)

My lol had 4 and I sort of think she's crazy
Some people do great with many kids, some people do great with one... It just depends on the family!!

LMAO, I was admittedly excited to be having a 2nd girl just stick it to MIL. She really wanted a boy and even picked out a name. Yeah, she's delusional.

katykatykaty · February 2014

I guess we are in the minority because we are likely done because we are having a boy and already have a girl. I always only wanted two no matter what, but if this one had been a second girl, I might have been more willing to have a third for my husband. Unlikely though!

Squirtmama · February 2014

Me too!

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