Oh, wait... you literally found the one thing that no one starts a mommy war over. Who cares where/at what level in the crib my kid sleeps? He could sleep suspended by his toes from the ceiling like a bat; I think we can all agree that when it comes to sleep you do whatever it takes.
(Just so you know, the bat thing was a joke. Never happened. More than once.)
Re: Bc I'm curious about cribs
+1 million.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.