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August 2013 Moms
Marvel1013
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FIL OUT.
Marvel1013
member
Well ladies and... Ladies, it all happened here last night. I'm not telling my back story for all of you who don't know. It was like a war zone here.. And I'm not exaggerating.
This was bound to happen. FIL has been pissing both me and H off lately, ALOT. H and him had a massive argument last night.. Then H had one with MIL. I'm so proud of MH, he finally stood up to his parents and had my back on everything. Things got pretty intense though. After the argument with MIL, H called her the C word. FIL flipped out and it turned into a pushing match, then I got involved and was trying to get them to stop and then they started grappling on the ground. I ran inside, grabbed FIL's keys, threw them at him and told him to get the F out. Enoughs enough. He then Insisted on coming inside and yelling like an idiot which woke DS up crying. I saw RED. I was screaming at him to get out of my house over and over and he kept trying to get past me. FIL had the balls to ask whose house I was talking about and I said mine and H's.. He then said "yes it's H's, he pays for it.. It's his".. That's when H got all pissed off again and made him get out.
It was SERIOUSY WAY to much to handle.. There were words said that I will never forget, and actions. My ILS always bring me and my family into their arguments and bitch and complain about me.. I'm sick of it. FIL is out. I'm not doing anyone of those people a favour anymore.. He was here for 7 months too long. SIL was in FIL's ear saying I don't do anything blah blah... I'm a SAHM mom.. Fuck off
Anyways, things cooled off between the two of them. They were still arguing but not like before. I.just.cant.deal.. H let him sleep here last night and I'm assuming he'll be back tonight and I'm letting him know that after tonight is his last night. It's a joke. Who acts like that, in my house, around MY children. He's lucky I didn't phone the police.
I needed to rant and get this off my chest. Thanks for listening.. I'm proud of H and myself
Eta- fixed a few words so it made sense
This was bound to happen. FIL has been pissing both me and H off lately, ALOT. H and him had a massive argument last night.. Then H had one with MIL. I'm so proud of MH, he finally stood up to his parents and had my back on everything. Things got pretty intense though. After the argument with MIL, H called her the C word. FIL flipped out and it turned into a pushing match, then I got involved and was trying to get them to stop and then they started grappling on the ground. I ran inside, grabbed FIL's keys, threw them at him and told him to get the F out. Enoughs enough. He then Insisted on coming inside and yelling like an idiot which woke DS up crying. I saw RED. I was screaming at him to get out of my house over and over and he kept trying to get past me. FIL had the balls to ask whose house I was talking about and I said mine and H's.. He then said "yes it's H's, he pays for it.. It's his".. That's when H got all pissed off again and made him get out.
It was SERIOUSY WAY to much to handle.. There were words said that I will never forget, and actions. My ILS always bring me and my family into their arguments and bitch and complain about me.. I'm sick of it. FIL is out. I'm not doing anyone of those people a favour anymore.. He was here for 7 months too long. SIL was in FIL's ear saying I don't do anything blah blah... I'm a SAHM mom.. Fuck off
Anyways, things cooled off between the two of them. They were still arguing but not like before. I.just.cant.deal.. H let him sleep here last night and I'm assuming he'll be back tonight and I'm letting him know that after tonight is his last night. It's a joke. Who acts like that, in my house, around MY children. He's lucky I didn't phone the police.
I needed to rant and get this off my chest. Thanks for listening.. I'm proud of H and myself
Eta- fixed a few words so it made sense
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Re: FIL OUT.
Hooray! Good for you and your H!
I'm beyond pissed off at this point. I hope he comes here after his work just so I can say what I hae to say. He is NOT staying here anymore. H isn't a dick, so he let him stay last night.. He wouldn't put his family out, but still made his point clear.
DD2 8.22.13
MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18
What a douche.
Definitely glad that hot mess is over for you, geezus.
It sucks it had to get to that point but I'm glad you guys let him know he's not welcome anymore.
FX that he doesn't think these two nights are freebies and decides to extend his stay. Stay strong!
Now that you don't have to cook & clean up after him you can get back to that relaxin on the couch sahm gig...I mean, it's a breeze right?
*major eye roll**
Ohh ok, I wasn't clear in my post but DS didn't see anything and LO was sleeping. When FIL came inside yelling DS was woken up and started crying in his bedroom.. THATS when I saw red and was telling him toget out of my house. I was not about to have DS see any of it.. I feel bad he had to hear it though
Hopefully happier times are ahead for you guys!
Awesome!
Did he try to stay last night?
BFP 3/29/2014 2u2 Let's do this!
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
A lot of relationships have been ruined due to him staying here. It's been a mess. someday a were fine, but the bad definitely outweighed the good. Glad to know I have all your support! Thanks
And because I'm happy