Since this phrase gets tossed around a lot (I'm looking at the Valentine's Day post most recently), define it for me. Do you consider it anything other than straight up missionary? Is it more involved? Taking your time? Adding extra tricks?
For me it's more about pulling out the stops and taking your time to really enjoy everything, not just the 10 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of sex, you know?
For me it's more about pulling out the stops and taking your time to really enjoy everything, not just the 10 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of sex, you know?
Breaking out the sexy lingerie. Clean sheets, candles, maybe even spray the sheets with a little perfume - extra time setting the mood. Take our time and really enjoy each other.
This sounds terrible, but for me it's all about effort. We definitely have a routine for our regular sessions.. When it's gourmet I usually put more attention and effort into my actions.
Breaking out the sexy lingerie. Clean sheets, candles, maybe even spray the sheets with a little perfume - extra time setting the mood. Take our time and really enjoy each other.
Oooh that does sound gourmet. I have never sprayed the sheets with perfume... We bring out the candles sometimes, but that's usually around the soaker tub. I guess bath foreplay would be my definition of gourmet.
I really need to change the sheets before we have sex again, and also stop letting DD eat cheerios in bed. We've now had a few mishaps involving stray cheerios.
Re: S/O gourmet sex
Nancy James 9.1.12
Calvin Donald 8.27.14
Eta: I'm kidding. That's reserved only for his birthday.
DS-9/2012
DD-7/2015
When you say "the camper", is that an actual camper or something else