September 2012 Moms

S/O gourmet sex

Since this phrase gets tossed around a lot (I'm looking at the Valentine's Day post most recently), define it for me. Do you consider it anything other than straight up missionary? Is it more involved? Taking your time? Adding extra tricks?

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Re: S/O gourmet sex

  • For me it's more about pulling out the stops and taking your time to really enjoy everything, not just the 10 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of sex, you know?


    Nancy James 9.1.12

    Calvin Donald 8.27.14

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  • Positions we haven't done in a while, a little more foreplay than usual.
                           
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  • Pretty much anything that's not a quickie in our house.

    When we can set aside 30-45 minutes and actually have some foreplay, like maybe some oral action. ;)
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  • Breaking out the sexy lingerie. Clean sheets, candles, maybe even spray the sheets with a little perfume - extra time setting the mood. Take our time and really enjoy each other.

    James Sawyer 12.3.10
    Leo Richard 9.20.12 
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  • This sounds terrible, but for me it's all about effort. We definitely have a routine for our regular sessions.. When it's gourmet I usually put more attention and effort into my actions. 

    Married: 11/2011
    DS-9/2012
    DD-7/2015
    Sweet Angel Boy born too soon 12/17/17
    EDD-4/2019

  • hmp1 said:
    Breaking out the sexy lingerie. Clean sheets, candles, maybe even spray the sheets with a little perfume - extra time setting the mood. Take our time and really enjoy each other.
    Oooh that does sound gourmet.  I have never sprayed the sheets with perfume... We bring out the candles sometimes, but that's usually around the soaker tub. I guess bath foreplay would be my definition of gourmet.
  • Anything involving dressing up, more foreplay, strip teases, toys, or anything that happens in the camper.

    When you say "the camper", is that an actual camper or something else ;)
    It's actually a camper
    And why is the camper special? We don't have a camper, but I could dig out our tent.

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