5cm, 100% effaced and still no baby !

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

I'm not due until the 25th but i hate when my dr says he doubts i'll make it to next monday and him saying that makes me so anxious I feel like shes never going to come. I know it's still a lil early not really bit time early but i still have 3 weeks left but ugh. This waiting is killing me specially having silent labor not knowing when to go in is hard . Any advice this is my #2 the dr says she is really really low.

ShreyaR · February 2014

No idea on this matter but Goodluck!!

jpoindahouse · February 2014

I am sorry you seem so concerned and frustrated, but I am confused by your post. You appear worried that you will not know when your baby is arriving because you are having "silent labor." I assume that you are referring to the fact that you are very dilated and you were not aware of your progress prior to your cervical exam. I don't necessarily think this means that you will be unaware of your contractions when you go into active labor. You really need to speak to your doctor about your concerns. While some women on this board may have medical training, it is not the best strategy to rely upon the internet for medical advice. Good luck!

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PinkLillyLover · February 2014

I'm confused as well. Maybe her due date changed sometime along the way???

notreal2 · February 2014

Everytime someone posts one of these thread, I feel like it's written by some sort of Navajo Codetalker. I really shouldn't have fallen asleep in that pregnant lady class everyone else took.

littlepig2 · February 2014

BlueDot818 said:

I was going to say the same thing as PP's have... if your ticker is saying you are 39+ you aren't due the 25th. It should read the same as mine 37+2d.

Also if you're 5cm and 100% effaced you could probably ask your doctor about sending you over to L&D and starting pitocin if you are making progress... I've heard that most Dr.'s send women over to the hospital if they are 4cm... just to make sure everything is ok... I certainly could be wrong about that, and every Dr. is different.

this. if I was 5 cm and 100% effaced, my doctor would not be sending me home. OP, I don't understand the point of your post, the difference between your ticker and EDD, nor do I understand what you expect us to help you with.

RondackHiker · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:
I'm not due until the 25th but i hate when my dr says he doubts i'll make it to next monday and him saying that makes me so anxious I feel like shes never going to come. I know it's still a lil early not really bit time early but i still have 3 weeks left but ugh. This waiting is killing me specially having silent labor not knowing when to go in is hard . Any advice this is my #2 the dr says she is really really low.

I have no idea what you're trying to say or ask here.

ntroud01 · February 2014

BlueDot818 said:
I was going to say the same thing as PP's have... if your ticker is saying you are 39+ you aren't due the 25th. It should read the same as mine 37+2d.

Also if you're 5cm and 100% effaced you could probably ask your doctor about sending you over to L&D and starting pitocin if you are making progress... I've heard that most Dr.'s send women over to the hospital if they are 4cm... just to make sure everything is ok... I certainly could be wrong about that, and every Dr. is different.

This. My Dr. told me they would send me to L&D if I was 4cm or more with no contractions, so I would ask. But like BlueDot said every Dr. is likely to have a different protocol and if you are 3 weeks away still they might want you to wait a bit longer.

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

Well obvious the ticker thing is wrong if i put i'm due 25th !! I been trying to change it and if yall give me a second to come on here with out everyone asking whats the question i'll give it to yall . I forgot to reread what I put my question is can I not be so anxious for her to come knowing she should be here soon ? An the dr sent me home i wouldn't be home or know any of this if the dr didn't tell me just so yall know !

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

* how can I not be so anxious for her to come ? What can I do to keep my mind off from trying to get her to come early ?

cksmith29 · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:

Well obvious the ticker thing is wrong if i put i'm due 25th !! I been trying to change it and if yall give me a second to come on here with out everyone asking whats the question i'll give it to yall . I forgot to reread what I put my question is can I not be so anxious for her to come knowing she should be here soon ? An the dr sent me home i wouldn't be home or know any of this if the dr didn't tell me just so yall know !

Sorry, but you still do not make any sense.

JordyInIndy · February 2014

This is an Internet forum, not a text chat with your friends. Punctuation and proper spelling go a long way because I still have no idea what it is you're asking/saying.

FWIW - I was going to be sent home at my last checkup and I was 5cm 90% effaced. The only reason I was sent to deliver was because baby was having decels.

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

PLEASE READ WHAT i WROTE UNDER THAT ONE THANKS !

JordyInIndy · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:
PLEASE READ WHAT i WROTE UNDER THAT ONE THANKS !

WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING? It's your own fault no one knows what you're asking. THANKS!

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

It makes perfect sense if you read it all and not what you want to read ! But never mind I had my question answered some where else ! No need to try to hurt your self on trying to read something !

JordyInIndy · February 2014

Ok !

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

I can do what I want its my post Thanks Dont reply back if you think i;m shouting lol

RondackHiker · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:
It makes perfect sense if you read it all and not what you want to read ! But never mind I had my question answered some where else ! No need to try to hurt your self on trying to read something !

No, no it doesn't make perfect sense.

Is English your first language?

Mamanajera2 · February 2014

Well no shit ! I wouldn't be on here if it wasn't go ahead and stick up for them

I'm just doing this for the fun of it now go ahead and waste your time commenting on here . Stupid I'm telling you.

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Mamanajera2 · February 2014

This hole site is messed up anyways you can't do shit or delete shit or talk to normal people who can't put two to two together smh. I won't be wasting my time on this site !

cauliflowereyes · February 2014

Wait.. this is a Hole site?? I LOVE that band!!

RondackHiker · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:
This hole site is messed up anyways you can't do shit or delete shit or talk to normal people who can't put two to two together smh. I won't be wasting my time on this site !

What I THINK you are trying to say is this:

This whole site is messed up anyways. You can't do shit or delete shit or talk to normal people. Who can't put two and two together? Shaking my head.

I won't be wasting my time on this site!

I'm still not clear on the "two and two" (or two to two) as you put it.

Are you complaining that we can't read your run on sentences with strange spacings, typos, mis-spellings, and at times, just the wrong word?

ras26 · February 2014

I'm just confused how you can have three different pregnancy tickers that all say the same thing, but we are supposed to assume they are ALL wrong, as opposed to the possibility that the EDD was typed wrong in the otherwise incomprehensible post.

RondackHiker · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:
Well no shit ! I wouldn't be on here if it wasn't go ahead and stick up for them I'm just doing this for the fun of it now go ahead and waste your time commenting on here . Stupid I'm telling you.

I think you're speaking to me. The quote button makes that more clear. The only one I'm sticking up for is the English language.

What are you doing for the fun of it? Writing poorly? That sounds like a BLAST.

Your posts would be more clear if you got rid of run on sentences, got rid of the spaces before periods and exclamation points, and reread your posts to make sure they're clear.

What is "stupid I'm telling you"? Are you calling someone stupid? Because that would be "stupid, I'm telling you" and then you'd need to share what you're saying. Like "Stupid, I'm telling you that I DO have a third grade education," or "Stupid, I'm telling you that I am grateful I managed to land some job that requires no writing at all."

littlepig2 · February 2014

guys, I think she came back with another SN and the ability to form complete sentences. check out the new thread.

sprashley · February 2014

Rach521 said:

guys, I think she came back with another SN and the ability to form complete sentences. check out the new thread.

Nope, just went over to 3d Tri board....

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12253043/5cm-dilated-100-effaced-head-down#latest

mamacrunch · February 2014

elf828 said:

RondackHiker said:

Well no shit ! I wouldn't be on here if it wasn't go ahead and stick up for them I'm just doing this for the fun of it now go ahead and waste your time commenting on here . Stupid I'm telling you.
I think you're speaking to me. The quote button makes that more clear. The only one I'm sticking up for is the English language. What are you doing for the fun of it? Writing poorly? That sounds like a BLAST. @.@ Your posts would be more clear if you got rid of run on sentences, got rid of the spaces before periods and exclamation points, and reread your posts to make sure they're clear. What is "stupid I'm telling you"? Are you calling someone stupid? Because that would be "stupid, I'm telling you" and then you'd need to share what you're saying. Like "Stupid, I'm telling you that I DO have a third grade education," or "Stupid, I'm telling you that I am grateful I managed to land some job that requires no writing at all."

Snort.

^^^^^Miss you guys!^^^^^^^

JordyInIndy · February 2014

@rondackhiker wins this thread.

cksmith29 · February 2014

Mamanajera2 said:

It makes perfect sense if you read it all and not what you want to read ! But never mind I had my question answered some where else ! No need to try to hurt your self on trying to read something !

No, it does not make sense let alone perfect sense.

Meghan14 · February 2014

At least I could come close to understanding her second try. (Thanks for the link above) Wow, every single post had some of the worst grammar I've ever seen... and I teach 9th graders.