My son just turned 3 and had an evaluation with ECE because he's aging out of EI. They told me that they saw several indicators of ASD and suggested that we proceed with the evaluation through the school district to try and get an educational diagnosis. We are in the process right now and will have a decision on Valentine's day. We saw the developmental pedi today and he pronounced my son as "completely typical" and said that he saw no indicators for ASD. He agreed to refer us for an evaluation, but said that often, kids receive an educational diagnosis but not a medical diagnosis. I'm frustrated and at the end of my rope for dealing with his challenging behavior on my own, but we cannot receive private therapy through our insurance without a medical diagnosis.
So ASD moms, did anyone get a diagnosis through the school but not a medical diagnosis? I'm now second guessing myself about going through with the medical evaluation, but the results from the school's evaluation vs. the developmental pedi were so different. School said that he was "severely delayed" in communication, social/emotional, and had sensory issues, but the developmental pedi said that he saw no delays in those areas.
Re: ASD - educational diagnosis vs. medical diagnosis
It does seem unusual to hear unequivocally no from the developmental pedi and the opposite from the school. When DS was first diagnosed his regular pedi was doubtful that he had any delays, but referred us to the school district anyway. When we came back for his 2 year well child (after DS had been receiving therapy for 4 months) he had experienced such a language explosion that the regular pedi said that he may "outgrow" the diagnosis because our school district (a large urban district with a history of having a disproportionately large number of minority children with ASD) seemed to cast a wide net when they provided educational diagnosis' to encompass any type of delay and basically provide as many services to toddlers as possible. This was not what I needed to hear at the time, and I latched onto it thinking my son would age out of his diagnosis. As he got older it became plainer that he did in fact have ASD and we visited a developmental pedi who provided quite a different assessment than the regular pedi.
I hope you get some clarity soon, what a rollercoaster.
Oh I know how frustrating this is for you. I have been in same boat. My son has speech delay and at 18 month appt I pushed for speech eval, which then led to OT eval and got a dx of SPD. Went to devel peds and she agreed that she didn't see ASD but definately SPD, but of course was a bit early to diagnose for sure at this early age. Forward to now he is age 3.5 and still has speech delay and SPD and new dx of ADHD, but still no ASD, which I am torn. I don't see ASD in him but alot of SPD and even ADHD things can look like ASD and vice versa. He has had evals from develop peds, neuro, ST,OT,PT, peds psych x2 and everyone agrees no ASD but definately SPD. That's hard because then he doesn't qualify for services he needs. Right now his behaviors are all over the place, if he is sensory balanced he is great, just got star of the day yesterday, then today his preschool teacher said it was a really rough day for him. I am also feeling your pain at being at a loss for what to do. The system can be so hard to navigate thru. My son's speech delay has much improved but he is still behind. When he has his preschool eval at 2 yrs 9 months, he qualified only for speech but barely. The way they classify kids is odd to me. For instance my son, at his eval, couldn't even be understood probably by 90 % of the words he said but he got credit for "attempting" to say something eventhough it was unintelligible. How does that work? I feel for ya and am sending you hugs.
My DS is still categorized as a "Preschooler with a Disability" at school. It'll be interesting to see what the school label is next year after his tri annual evals (in my state the preschooler w/ a Disability is only used until age 6)
DS 09/2008
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Yup, home sweet home. It's a very divisive issue for the school district. I heard one of the moms quoted in the article speak at a legislative hearing and people practically came to blows. Lots of interesting theories on why the link, but no answers yet.
Actually, I don't think I really absorbed that the rates are so much higher for white students as well. It has to be in the way they are diagnosing, no? But for the near average rates for other minorities I guess.
To the OP:
Our dev. pedi spent hours evaluating him and wanted to see every diagnostic test ever done on DS by the school district. It was an intense month long process to be evaluated including about 4 hours one:one in his office. It sounds like your son does have some traits that are common in ASD (the scripting, lack of engagement with peers, lack of imaginative play are all traits my son posesses) but I'd want a better workup by a dev. pedi