Single Parents

Shower Today :/

I did not want a shower, but my friends are so excited about me having a baby that I agreed to one. I refused to put anything expensive on my list (i just put stuff like diapers and wipes) and I tried to stress that the point of it is for everyone to sit around, relax, and cheers to the new baby boy member of our group.

My best friend wants to bring her boyfriend, who was hitting on me the whole first night we met him and STILL does creepy things like rub my back and catch my eye when everyone's out together. I said sorry guys don't come to those things. So now she says she just won't stay long because it wouldn't be fair to him to be left alone.

She knows I hate these kinds of things anyway, and she's also the only person aside from you guys and my ex, who knows that I've been having contractions and serious neurological problems.

I guess I'm gonna have to get used to this kind of thing, but it sucks. I just want to get the shower over with and wait for my son to arrive.

Re: Shower Today :/

  • Im sorry! Hugs. Stay off your feet drink lots. Enjoy food. And enjoy time with your friends before baby comes.

    And just think after you can be home instretchy pants while relaxing
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  • Wow, that's kind of shitty of her. He can't be alone for an hour or two? They have to be next to each other every second of every day? Lame.
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  • Also what guy WANTS to go to a shower.
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  • I ended up telling my other friend to cancel the shower and ill have a meet and greet after he's here. I can't deal with that today.

    I called labor and delivery again because the pressure, headache, nausea were getting worse and the cramping wasnt stopping. They had me talk to the on call dr since its Saturday and she basically asked me if I was a first time mom then stopped listening. It's pretty clear to me at this point that no one over there wants to check me since its Saturday.

    No one cares that I have a neurological disease. They haven't heard of it so it must not be important. Btw spinocerebellar ataxia results in death and there is no treatment. My granddad died from it after catching pneumonia. His brother died from it after his heart and lungs just stopped moving. But ho hum whatever.

    My ex said he's just gonna take me to the er if it gets worse so we can just know if im dilating or not.
  • Im sorry dear! More hugs for you, glad your ex is around to make sure your okay.

    Try taking a bath and getting some rest. Try to get through the weekend then call and speak to your doc monday
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  • Keeping you in my thoughts! I'm also glad your ex is there to help you, that's so scary that the hospital seems to not care!
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