Hey guys, Just moved into the third trimester with the twins on the way. My wife has begun feelin uncomfortable lately (sweeping feet, kicking in her ribs) and I was hoping for some advice on some small things I can do to help keep her happy. We've just moved from our condo to a house so we are still getting most things settled and my dad is delivering all our baby furniture next week (my sister is giving us all her potterybarn used stuff!!) Anything you can think of that worked for you would be appreciated!
What ladyjenna said. All her chores, and also ask periodically if there is anything you can do to help. It might be simple stuff like getting a glass of water, but every little bit could mean a lot to her.
Thanks for all the advice. Right now it's nightly foot rubs, dog walks, I do most of the cleaning and help out with cooking. I like the idea of helping paint her toes especially since we are trying to save some money and she is really feeling bad about her looks.
I'm lurking as well... I just wanted to say that I think it's extremely sweet of you to even be asking this on here. There are other men out there, other dads to be, that don't think the way you do and instead make their wives do most of the work and even complain about how they're tired. You understanding and wanting to help all the time and asking and even doing stuff without asking would be all that I would need. Honestly, you're a commendable man for this! I hope your wife really appreciates it all! Congrats
Re: How to keep the wife happy?
Foot rubs or any other rubdowns of sore body areas.
Doing the laundry
Cooking
All the physical labor that she normally does, you have to pick that up now.
And most importantly..........anything that she tells you to do.
Just make her feel loved - that goes a long way
I like the idea of helping paint her toes especially since we are trying to save some money and she is really feeling bad about her looks.