i love where she writes "It’s because women secretly like to talk about how hard managing a household is so they don’t have to explain their lack of real accomplishments."
I have real accomplishments despite being a stay at home mom. It sounds like she's extremely bitter, or extremely greedy. I value a lot of things in my life, not just money and my career. I guess her value lies within material things and visible accomplishments.
And, no one knows how hard it is to raise children, unless you're raising children.
To my boys: I will love you for you Not for what you have done or what you will become I will love you for you I will give you the love The love that you never knew
My initial reaction is to be mad, but a happy, content person doesn't not disparage someone else. She can decide it's not the path for her. She can even not agree with staying at home, but I truly believe if she felt as good about her "path" as she wants us to believe she wouldn't be such an ass.
She's also trying to desperately get Internet attention.
I know my role is appreciated by those who love me, I feel accomplished in my role, although she bugs me, her opinion doesn't/shouldn't matter to any of us.
Also, I don't think she knows the difference between an accomplishment and a mile stone. Getting married is a mile stone not an accomplishment. No one celebrates the accomplishment of getting married. It is the enormous life change.
When I read this, all I saw was a giant AW trying to get her inflammatory blog post to go viral. It's just a whiny opinion, based on nothing informative or substantial. I'm not impressed.
Um, who is this chick and why should I care what she says?
ITA w/ @ASullivan1231; someone who is happy doesn't have that kind of anger toward someone else's choices. She reminds me of someone I know IRL; disparages marriage b/c of his own intimacy issues and bad relationship decisions. He'll post stuff on FB like "I'm so sick of engagement announcements; why doesn't anyone celebrate my being single and free?" I roll my eyes, kinda feel sorry for him, but that's pretty much all the shits I have to give. :-P
I have an issue that so many hipsters of a certain generation have such a problem with normal and average. Everyone thinks they are some darn special snowflake.
Re: Was this posted here yet?
She's also trying to desperately get Internet attention.
I know my role is appreciated by those who love me, I feel accomplished in my role, although she bugs me, her opinion doesn't/shouldn't matter to any of us.
DH would be the first to admit keeping a household and being with the kid(s) is hard. He tells me many times he doesn't know how I do it.
Ditto she just sounds bitter. Good for her for not being "average". I'm quite content in my life with a husband and kids.
https://www.dontquotetheraven.com/2014/01/an-open-letter-to-that-woman-who-wrote.html?m=1
ITA w/ @ASullivan1231; someone who is happy doesn't have that kind of anger toward someone else's choices. She reminds me of someone I know IRL; disparages marriage b/c of his own intimacy issues and bad relationship decisions. He'll post stuff on FB like "I'm so sick of engagement announcements; why doesn't anyone celebrate my being single and free?" I roll my eyes, kinda feel sorry for him, but that's pretty much all the shits I have to give. :-P